FI dropped a bomb on my lap today. We have a venue meeting on Saturday and one of the questions I was going to ask is whether they have a kids menu. He replies with "I don''t want children at the wedding."
Now before everyone gets all "that''s inconsiderate" he doesn''t have any kids on his side at all (youngest is 15). He has one friend with a 5 year old that is not with the mother anymore so he won''t bring his son. I have one girlfriend that will take the opportunity as a night out with the hubby and leave the two kids at home with grandma. The only people that would bring children would be my three local cousins. They each have three children.
Because he doesn''t have kids on his side, he rather it be an adult party (he doesn''t even want to invite the 15 year old). I secretly would prefer only adults as well but I luff my cousins and I know they woud feel hurt/upset if I didn''t extend the invite to their kids. They most likely will not come. So for this reason, I''m torn.
Anyways, just wanted to know what the brides are doing.
Now before everyone gets all "that''s inconsiderate" he doesn''t have any kids on his side at all (youngest is 15). He has one friend with a 5 year old that is not with the mother anymore so he won''t bring his son. I have one girlfriend that will take the opportunity as a night out with the hubby and leave the two kids at home with grandma. The only people that would bring children would be my three local cousins. They each have three children.
Because he doesn''t have kids on his side, he rather it be an adult party (he doesn''t even want to invite the 15 year old). I secretly would prefer only adults as well but I luff my cousins and I know they woud feel hurt/upset if I didn''t extend the invite to their kids. They most likely will not come. So for this reason, I''m torn.
Anyways, just wanted to know what the brides are doing.