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Re: POL: Make Bingo Great Again (POTUS Congressional Address
Well said. All of it. Thank you.
JoCoJenn|1488342584|4135086 said:lovedogs|1488341170|4135077 said:that's too bad. I'm sorry that you guys don't see eye to eye.
In terms of the underlined, I agree she certainly did choose to accept the invite. I just think it's really hard in that ind of situation. Of course she would want to go because POTUS was speaking and she was invited. And because her DH cared about America and fought for our country. But whether or not it's the best thing for her to be the center of attention during a huge national address is arguable, and something I don't think anyone should have to experience. But again, that's totally irrelevant in terms of Trump, as I don't think any other POTUS would have done things differently. Just something I hate to see because I think it puts this grieving person in a weird position that they shouldn't have to be in.
I really do totally get what you're saying, and agree it probably appears to be an awkward position to be in. But at the same time, I can also see it being - in a sense - a part of healing for her, to share a national moment of celebration of her husband, and recognition of their sacrifice; to have people recognize and respect her husband and share in and feel her grief and loss even for a moment; for others to perhaps further grasp the enormity of what we ask our military to do. And as his wife & partner, it was another opportunity for her to also celebrate him and his devotion to his country.
At least, that is how I would feel if that had been my husband who died in that mission. I had thought about it many times because I had to (DD's dad was also active duty) ... not at a presidential address per se, but military spouses know the reality of what comes with their 'role'. Her decision to attend was selfless, and entirely about honoring her husband.
That's why I have so much respect for her ... and why I so want to throat-punch my dad.
Well said. All of it. Thank you.