Sabine
Ideal_Rock
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FI and I attended the wedding of one of his best friends last night. To me, FI has had a really unique friend experience. He had a group of really close guy friends in high school (nothing to weird about that), and although they all scattered all over the country after hs, and don''t see each other or even talk to each other all that often now, whenever they do get together, it is just like they see each other every day. They seem just as close as they ever were. Of course, there are some of these friends that are more on the outskirts than others. When we were doing our guest list, we pretty much decided that if FI hadn''t talked to them in over a year and did not have a current address, they wouldn''t be invited.
Well...last night, since FI and the groom were in this same group of friends, most of the guys from hs were there. And we quickly realized that all but ONE of them was invited and coming to OUR wedding in three weeks. I''ve heard from the rest of the guys that the one quickly made it known that he wasn''t invited and that he wanted to be. He even basically mentioned it to FI as soon as he saw them. So of course FI did the gracious and panicked thing of saying, oh, we would have loved to invite you, but didn''t have your address. This kid said, well, I''ll be in town that weekend, and so will my girlfriend. So now we have 2 extra people coming to our wedding, and had to hang out with this kid all night with him being aware that he was the only one of the people at that wedding that we hadn''t invited.
Well...last night, since FI and the groom were in this same group of friends, most of the guys from hs were there. And we quickly realized that all but ONE of them was invited and coming to OUR wedding in three weeks. I''ve heard from the rest of the guys that the one quickly made it known that he wasn''t invited and that he wanted to be. He even basically mentioned it to FI as soon as he saw them. So of course FI did the gracious and panicked thing of saying, oh, we would have loved to invite you, but didn''t have your address. This kid said, well, I''ll be in town that weekend, and so will my girlfriend. So now we have 2 extra people coming to our wedding, and had to hang out with this kid all night with him being aware that he was the only one of the people at that wedding that we hadn''t invited.