somethingshiny
Ideal_Rock
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El- My sis is "obese" but doing really well at losing weight, and I''m thinking she''s becoming more fertile. She can actually detect her ovulation now, etc.
cara- Your post made me think. I hadn''t considered her situation to be the same as the people who knowingly use unproven methods, etc. I also hadn''t considered the risk of Plan B failing. Until I started researching it, I didn''t know it was possible! Hopefully that will get her thinking in a different direction.
The reason it''s my business is because she asked me. She''s only taken it once (that I know of) but she''s thinking it''s a good PERMANENT backup. As in, any time there''s unprotected intercourse, I can just take that. The expense is not an issue because she''s on public healthcare.
I think the reason she doesn''t want to switch pills (her primary birth control) is because her pill seems to be helping her lose weight. TO her, that''s the biggest issue. She doesn''t want a pill that will make her gain weight, etc. Obviously there are lots of pills and other bc forms to choose from and I''ve been trying to guide her in that direction. I kind of wish she''d go towards the IUD.
My sister is not known for making the most responsible decisions, and she is certainly in no place to get pregnant. She''s going through a divorce and has a 2 yr old. Obviously, she''s under lots of stress but I don''t want her to start a NEW set of bad decisions, ya know?
Thanks for all of your input
btw-I am most worried about STD''s. I volunteered to pick up condoms
cara- Your post made me think. I hadn''t considered her situation to be the same as the people who knowingly use unproven methods, etc. I also hadn''t considered the risk of Plan B failing. Until I started researching it, I didn''t know it was possible! Hopefully that will get her thinking in a different direction.
The reason it''s my business is because she asked me. She''s only taken it once (that I know of) but she''s thinking it''s a good PERMANENT backup. As in, any time there''s unprotected intercourse, I can just take that. The expense is not an issue because she''s on public healthcare.
I think the reason she doesn''t want to switch pills (her primary birth control) is because her pill seems to be helping her lose weight. TO her, that''s the biggest issue. She doesn''t want a pill that will make her gain weight, etc. Obviously there are lots of pills and other bc forms to choose from and I''ve been trying to guide her in that direction. I kind of wish she''d go towards the IUD.
My sister is not known for making the most responsible decisions, and she is certainly in no place to get pregnant. She''s going through a divorce and has a 2 yr old. Obviously, she''s under lots of stress but I don''t want her to start a NEW set of bad decisions, ya know?
Thanks for all of your input
btw-I am most worried about STD''s. I volunteered to pick up condoms
