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lady PS ers only talk about cheating men...

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I don''t think we''d talk about cheating men so much if it didn''t happen all the dang time!!! The only cheating women I know are the "other women"...
 
Date: 12/12/2009 4:31:35 PM
Author: vespergirl
I know of several women who have cheated on their husbands. In fact, I recently read a study that said that women are most likely to cheat in early motherhood, when their children are very young. Frequently this is because their husbands view them differently when they become mothers, and they are looking to validate themselves as still being desirable and attractive.

I have a history of infidelity myself - never during my marriage (or during my first marriage, which broke up over financial and health issues), but with a boyfriend I had when I was much younger. I had difficulty turning down new admirers in a long term relationship and was sowing my wild oats. He was a great guy and we really loved each other, but I was too young and immature to fully commit.

However, I take my marriage vows very seriously, and have been faithful to my husband since the time we decided to date exclusively.
ha,ha, you are the first PSer to admit it.
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Oh God...I guess when I was younger I crossed lines i wouldn''t dream of crossing now. I had a long term boyfriend when I was in high school, by the time I had graduated I had outgrown him but didn''t end our relationship either...I started talking (only talking) to other men. Nothing serious, we''d exchange number, talk on the phone, meet up and take long walks. It never crossed a platonic line, but if I''m being honest I''d say that it was emotional cheating...the other guys were meeting need my boyfriend no longer could. I never slept with anyone else, or even kissed...I drew the line at having dinner...but we''d TALK for hours on end, text message and sometimes it borderline. Eventually I man''d up and broke things off...my next relationship ended with my fiance cheating on me BIG TIME. Lesson learned.

I take my marriage vows very seriously, and I see the errors way back when. I never thought outside of myself, saw that I was hurting my boyfriend and embarrassing him. I knew what I was doing was wrong, at 18 it was impossible to verbalize what I was feeling.

I think cheating is more than sleeping with someone...and if my husband now carried on with a woman like I carried on back then, it would be an issue. I wish I could undo what I did, but I can''t and I''m sorry.
 
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