brazen_irish_hussy
Ideal_Rock
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Re: ladies,if you knew your best friend was having an affair
If it was a drunken one night stand after they had a fight and she was really sorry sort of thing and used protection, no I would not. Otherwise, I would tell her she has the option to tell or I will. I would want someone to tell me if I were the one being cheated on. And like I said, if they are going outside the relationship and the other partner doesn't know it, they could get an STD easily. I could not live with myself if someone got HIV or something because I didn't say anything.
For those of you would would instantly tell you BF if they were being cheated on but never if they were the cheaters, What's the difference?
If they are in a bad relationship, they need to leave. I have known people in these relationships, some really terrible, but I still do not condone it. If mine went sour, I would have the common decency to end it before moving on. As for my love of that person not transending their indescretions, if they are the sort of person to do this, then they are not the person I loved. Sort of like the fact that I would do anything for DH in part because he would not ask me to do anything terrible. I love my friends because of who they are, if that person changes, I am not obligated to love them anymore.
If it was a drunken one night stand after they had a fight and she was really sorry sort of thing and used protection, no I would not. Otherwise, I would tell her she has the option to tell or I will. I would want someone to tell me if I were the one being cheated on. And like I said, if they are going outside the relationship and the other partner doesn't know it, they could get an STD easily. I could not live with myself if someone got HIV or something because I didn't say anything.
For those of you would would instantly tell you BF if they were being cheated on but never if they were the cheaters, What's the difference?
If they are in a bad relationship, they need to leave. I have known people in these relationships, some really terrible, but I still do not condone it. If mine went sour, I would have the common decency to end it before moving on. As for my love of that person not transending their indescretions, if they are the sort of person to do this, then they are not the person I loved. Sort of like the fact that I would do anything for DH in part because he would not ask me to do anything terrible. I love my friends because of who they are, if that person changes, I am not obligated to love them anymore.