LiW is this weird?

[emilina22]

ok so weve been talking alot about getting engaged my the end of the year..YAY... and so ive sort of begun thinking and slowly planning our engagement party...is that weird? like i kinda already have a floor plan set for the tables and a color scheme, and well...a guest list...

and engagement parties are not your small 20 person party with us our engagement parties have 200+ invited...so its a big deal...

so is it weird that i already started planning it with out a proposal yet?

 

[Hera]

I don''t think there''s anything wrong with planning the engagement party. I just wouldn''t put money deposits on anything (halls, caterers,etc) until you are officially engaged. Have fun!

 

[musey]

200+ invited to an engagement party???!?!?!! How many would be invited to the WEDDING?

I can only imagine the envelope-stuffing sessions for those parties!

Anyway, it seems like an engagement party of that magnitude would require planning ahead. Especially if you wanted it to happen any time soon after the engagement

 

[monarch64]

I don''t think pre-planning anything relating to weddings or engagements is weird considering that some gals have had their weddings planned out since they were 10 years old! And I agree that in your case there is some advance planning to be done regarding estimations etc. since your party will be larger anyway. Plan away!

 

[bee*]

I don''t think it''s weird at all. I pretty much have my wedding dress picked out and Im not engaged yet!!

 

[nessvan12]

Not weird at all...I have MANY things about my wedding already planned out in my head and I still haven''t gotten the proposal yet. Happy planning!

 

[emilina22]

musey- yea well thats sorta how many seats im ONLY planning on setting for so more will eb invited...the wedding there will be well over 600...but thats due to our parents...im sure for that ill only set for 450ish...

heraanderson-nope no money down on anything...then i would say im crazy..just planning colors, seating charts, picking things out...

 

[leoslove730]

Date: 9/13/2007 3:42:44 AM
Author: bee*
I don''t think it''s weird at all. I pretty much have my wedding dress picked out and Im not engaged yet!!

LOL same here!!!!