Is this dude bad news?

[HollyS]

Date: 8/4/2009 5:50:56 PM
Author: purrfectpear
If you believe they didn''t have sex, I have a bridge in Manhattan to sell you.

No. I think he was pressuring her, she didn''t give in, and so he had to ''see less of her, talk less to her'' because he wasn''t getting what he was after. . . boot-ay.

Now, why her mama is that daggum dumb, I have no clue. But I think the gal in question was aware, all along, that there was something amiss. She needs to listen to her gut. And tune out mama.

 

[treefrog]

Date: 8/4/2009 6:26:05 PM
Author: HollyS

No. I think he was pressuring her, she didn''t give in, and so he had to ''see less of her, talk less to her'' because he wasn''t getting what he was after. . . boot-ay.

Now, why her mama is that daggum dumb, I have no clue. But I think the gal in question was aware, all along, that there was something amiss. She needs to listen to her gut. And tune out mama.

I don''t think she gave in either. It sounds like he learned she liked the attention. He tried taking that away (can''t even bear to hear your voice on the phone... it hurts too much... blah blah blah...) in hopes that she would give him what he wanted (sex... only) for her to get what she wanted (attention). I am so glad it backfired.

Yup, he''s cheating now and he will continue to cheat in the future. This guy is like stuff so bad it won''t even stick to pond scum.

Treefrog

 

[trillionaire]

Date: 8/4/2009 5:50:56 PM
Author: purrfectpear
If you believe they didn''t have sex, I have a bridge in Manhattan to sell you.

LOL, she didn''t, and she is glad. If he had ever let her come over to his house, it might have happened, but she did NOT have sex on her parents couch while they were home, I can guarantee you that!

Good thing he had that live-in GF!

 

[dragonfly411]

I''m sorry if this seems harsh of me, but are you sure you want to surround yourself with someone like her who is willing to allow such toxic and potentially harmful people into her and your life?

 

[trillionaire]

Date: 8/5/2009 3:27:40 PM
Author: dragonfly411
I''m sorry if this seems harsh of me, but are you sure you want to surround yourself with someone like her who is willing to allow such toxic and potentially harmful people into her and your life?

She''s a dear friend, so I hope and pray for someone decent to enter her life. She causes drama in her own life, not mine, and it worries and concerns me, but doesn''t stress me out. I have a very wonderful drama-free life, a loving family and FI. I am blessed, and I can afford to share my blessings and friendships with the people I care about. She''s an amazing, giving friend, very supportive, great for laughs, extremely intelligent, and I am so fortunate to have her in my life. Our friendship is not at all toxic, her personal relationships are though, sometimes.

And I don''t think that it was harsh of you at all

 

[dragonfly411]

Well I am glad to hear that then!

 

[treefrog]

Date: 8/5/2009 3:49:10 PM
Author: trillionaire

She''s a dear friend, so I hope and pray for someone decent to enter her life. She causes drama in her own life, not mine, and it worries and concerns me, but doesn''t stress me out. I have a very wonderful drama-free life, a loving family and FI. I am blessed, and I can afford to share my blessings and friendships with the people I care about. She''s an amazing, giving friend, very supportive, great for laughs, extremely intelligent, and I am so fortunate to have her in my life. Our friendship is not at all toxic, her personal relationships are though, sometimes.

And I don''t think that it was harsh of you at all

Beautiful words trillionaire.

Treefrog

 

[litebrite]

This guy sounds like trouble. and it''s just distasteful to be so aggressive in her parent''s living room after 1 date.