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Ideal_Rock
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I have a close GF from college, and we talk almost everyday. She hasn''t had very good luck in dating... she is gorgeous (objectively, not just because I am her friend), but never had a BF until after college, then was in a debacle of a LDR that was really, really terrible. Then a series of unrequited love situations, toss in there being diagnosed with a degenerative disorder, and BAM, she''s had a rough year
She goes to a house warming party last saturday and meets a guy who is immediately taken with her. Immediately, he is wanting to kiss her, wanted to sharea drink with her so his lips could touch something that hers did, wanted to give her a hickey so that other guys would know that she was taken, etc and being very forward and aggressive. (he is not american, so I don''t know if there are cultural differences at play) Anyway, she is an attention whore, so of course she gives this guy her number. He calls her 3 times and texts her twice in the first 15 hours of having her number. She eventually calls him, and they are planning a date, but she can''t drive for health reasons, so she invites him to her house (lives with parents).
Date one was uneventful, met the parents.
Date two, at her house again, he is ALL OVER HER IN HER PARENTS LIVING ROOM! And by that I mean her was trying to talk her into sex, even though she is waiting until she is married. He says, ''it won''t matter, we''re going to be together forever anyway''.
The next day they are talking/texting, and he says he ''loves her''. She says, ''I don''t know what to think, so I think I am going to believe him.''
I''m very anti-aggressive guys, so I can''t really be objective in this situation, but someone please tell me that I am not crazy thinking this guy is up to no good! Is there anything that I can say or do, or do I just prepare for another rollercoaster ride of a relationship? She is very excited about this guy, and is already missing him and his company, etc.
She goes to a house warming party last saturday and meets a guy who is immediately taken with her. Immediately, he is wanting to kiss her, wanted to sharea drink with her so his lips could touch something that hers did, wanted to give her a hickey so that other guys would know that she was taken, etc and being very forward and aggressive. (he is not american, so I don''t know if there are cultural differences at play) Anyway, she is an attention whore, so of course she gives this guy her number. He calls her 3 times and texts her twice in the first 15 hours of having her number. She eventually calls him, and they are planning a date, but she can''t drive for health reasons, so she invites him to her house (lives with parents).
Date one was uneventful, met the parents.
Date two, at her house again, he is ALL OVER HER IN HER PARENTS LIVING ROOM! And by that I mean her was trying to talk her into sex, even though she is waiting until she is married. He says, ''it won''t matter, we''re going to be together forever anyway''.
The next day they are talking/texting, and he says he ''loves her''. She says, ''I don''t know what to think, so I think I am going to believe him.''
I''m very anti-aggressive guys, so I can''t really be objective in this situation, but someone please tell me that I am not crazy thinking this guy is up to no good! Is there anything that I can say or do, or do I just prepare for another rollercoaster ride of a relationship? She is very excited about this guy, and is already missing him and his company, etc.
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