brazen_irish_hussy
Ideal_Rock
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Hello ladies, my mother and I are having a small etiquette dispute and I am hoping you can help.
There are some people my mom wants to invite she knows won’t come and for various reasons she believes it is the right thing to do.
I think asking wealthy people you know won’t come and who know you know they won’t come seems like a gift grab when it isn’t.
For example, there are some family friends who can’t come because their son is getting married the day before, but who invited us; or the parents of one of my BMs whom I have only met once and who won’t come and there are a few others along these lines.
Would it be rude not to send an invite or rude to do so? How would you feel if you were one of these people?