radiantquest
Ideal_Rock
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I posted a few weeks ago that they may be getting a divorce and then a few days ago my husband told me that his mother is getting an apartment. It seems to me that this is a permanent thing if she is moving out. I don''t like it. Husband seems to be handling it fine, but already I can see a split in sides. He says that he is not choosing sides and I don''t want to either, but I have always been closer to his mother anyway and I feel that it is crappy that she is the one to move out. FIL was the one that paid the house off, but that was the agreement and it is not as if she did nothing. She was the one that made it a home and now she is the one that has to leave! Honestly it pisses me off. He is going to ruin everything she has done. A man is not going to care for that house like she did. So now she is supposed to get an apartment. Is she going to take all the decorations in the house? She should. Afterall, if the house is his because he paid for it, everything inside it is hers because she paid for that.
My husband said that his dad will be coming over for dinner and staying over and such. No! My husband says well is he supposed to eat sandwiches for the rest of his life? I said no, he should have made his marriage better so that his wife would still be cooking for him instead of kicking her out. Granted a marriage takes two and it cannot be blamed on one person, but why should we coddle him when she is clearly getting the raw deal.
I am afraid that this is going to cause problems in my own marriage because I obviously think that she shouldn''t be put out and he thinks we should help his dad "lick his wounds".
My husband said that his dad will be coming over for dinner and staying over and such. No! My husband says well is he supposed to eat sandwiches for the rest of his life? I said no, he should have made his marriage better so that his wife would still be cooking for him instead of kicking her out. Granted a marriage takes two and it cannot be blamed on one person, but why should we coddle him when she is clearly getting the raw deal.
I am afraid that this is going to cause problems in my own marriage because I obviously think that she shouldn''t be put out and he thinks we should help his dad "lick his wounds".