if your FI ask you to sign a prenuptial...would you?

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 5/1/2009 6:53:00 PM
Author: omieluv
For me to sign would depend on the content of the prenup and of course a review by my father, who happens to be a lawyer. My family has a large chunk of property that has been in the family for years that will come to me down the road, so I will have my BF sign a prenup regarding the property. The rest of it, I could care less about, as it would be divided 50/50 anyway because we would have earned it together (what is fair is fair).

sounds fair to me.

 

[purselover]

Date: 4/29/2009 10:34:36 PM
Author: Kelli
Nope. He makes a lot more money than I do now but I spent my youth working my @$$ off to support him through school. Neither of us will inherit anything. I asked him once if he''d want me to sign one and he replied with a very sarcastic ''yeah, that would be a REALLY nice way of thanking you for supporting me while I was a broke college student.'' Gotta love him.

I have to agree as someone currently working while their SO is going through school I would find it pretty insulting for him to pull that

 

[Lady_Disdain]

I would have no problem signing a well balanced pre-nup.

I would ask my theoretical FI to draw it up. If I found it was wildly unbalanced, not only would I not sign it but I would seriously reconsider getting married.