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I think Miss Maya (my cat) is dealing with dementia

VRBeauty

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The vet's records indicate that Maya is now 20 1/2 years old. She was a rescue kitty so we don't know for sure, but she was still quite young - probably around 2 years old - when I got her so we're probably pretty close.

A few months ago she started missing her litter box when she urinated. It was just by a little at first, then a bit father... but usually on the large sheet of clear vinyl that's under the box to facilitate clean-up.

Then a few weeks ago she'd start howling from various parts of the house for no reason. It seemed at first that she wanted my attention, or was trying to find out where I was - she's been very deaf for quite a while now, so she wouldn't be able to hear me walking around the house. More recently I've started to think that she gets disoriented... it's as if she managed to find her food, or water, or litter box, but then isn't sure where she's supposed to go next or how to get there.

Lately I've started to notice her walking to the back op partially opened doors when she's trying to go from one room to another, rather than going through the opening. She catches the error and corrects herself eventually, but still.... We're talking about a house she's lived in, and rooms she's wandered about, for over 18 years!

When I went out of town last week I decided to board her for the seven days. Normally a neighbor comes over twice a day to feed her etc. when I'm gone, but I thought she might be more comfortable in the confines of the kennel than bouncing around an empty house by herself. She seemed to do well with the boarding, but the first night back home seemed to be hard on her. Four times I awoke to find her yowling somewhere in the house, seemingly not sure where she was or how to get back to the bedroom where she wanted to be.

I am making some changes to try to help her. Tonight I'll move her food to the hallway between the bedroom and the bathroom, and then close off doors leading to other parts of the house so she'll have a smaller space to deal with. I may get a string of little LED lights to help her find her way from the bedroom to the litter box and back again. I've also started putting a puppy training pad in front of the litter box, which makes clean-ups easier and deals with odor issues. (I did find a puddle in the hallway tonight, however.)

I hate that she has to deal with these moments of confusion and the fear that likely goes with them. Fortunately though she doesn't seem to be in any pain and she still enjoys lap time, and the time she spends soaking up sunshine, as always. And even though she seems to be stone deaf, she still somehow knows when the furnace has gone on, and manages to park herself in front of a register almost as soon as she senses that little "click" that promises more heat.

Has anyone else dealt with kitty dementia? Is there anything you can share about how it progressed in your cat(s)?
 
Oh VR, I'm sorry to hear this. That's the saddest thing about having furbabies in our lives.

How is her eyesight? My first thought from your description is that she might have failing eyesight as well as deafness. Might that account for it?
 
minousbijoux|1489127708|4138740 said:
Oh VR, I'm sorry to hear this. That's the saddest thing about having furbabies in our lives.

How is her eyesight? My first thought from your description is that she might have failing eyesight as well as deafness. Might that account for it?

Hmm... I think that is a possibility. I was alert to the signs of deafness because I've dealt with that before, but not failing eyesight. I'll have to look for that and maybe take her in for an examination. Thanks for the suggestion!

As for the price we pay for having a pets that we outlive... it's hard to see my pets deal with the limitations and illnesses they face as they get older, and of course it's never easy to lose one. Still,I think I'd rather have it that way than the other way around. That is, I'd rather outlive my pets than have them outlive me and have to deal with the confusion of losing such a large part of their lives.
 
That was my first thought as well, that she may be losing vision. I think giving her a smaller space to have to find her way around is wise.
 
I'm so sorry your furbaby is having issues, VR. I would definitely suggest an exam and see what your vet thinks. Cats are so good at hiding what ails them ... until they cannot, as I recently learned. I hope whatever it is can be treated and Miss Maya finds comfort again in her surroundings. (Hugs)
 
VRBeauty, I am so sorry about Miss Maya. It sounds like it probably is due to aging but I think it is a good idea to have a veterinarian give her a physical to rule out anything else. She is definitely has CATaracts by now. I mean 20 years old is amazing for a kitty (!) and at this age cataracts have developed so she is most likely dealing with impaired vision (might be almost blind) and impaired hearing.

What I know (which is very little re cats and dementia as I have never been fortunate enough to have a cat live to 20) is it is important to maintain a stimulating environment and that may help slow the cognitive decline. Including exercise and play and it sounds like you already do that with her and it is really a good sign she still takes pleasure from hanging out with you.

There are also special diets for improving cognitive function that include antioxidants, vitamins C and E, beta carotene, carnitine, carotenoids, Omega-3, flavonoids, and selenium. But I don't know their effectiveness but something to discuss with your veterinarian. There are also meds that can help improve brain function that have been approved in dogs but the The American Association of Feline Practitioners supports its use on cats who have been diagnosed with dementia by a veterinarian.

Here is a link you may find helpful.

https://indoorpet.osu.edu/dogs/aging_pets/cds


Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome

Your veterinarian will make a diagnosis of CDS in your pet based on the presence of 1 or more of the following "DISHA" signs which cannot be explained by a medical disease:

"D"isorientation – changes in spatial awareness, loss of ability to navigate around familiar obstacles, wandering behavior.
"I"nteraction changes – decreased interest in social interactions, petting, greetings, depended or “clingy” behaviors.
"S"leep/Wake cycle changes – restlessness or frequent waking during the night, increased sleep during daytime hours.
"H"ousesoiling – no longer lets owner know when it needs to go outside, indoor elimination, incontinence
"A"ctivity level changes – decreased exploration and response to things, people, sounds around the house, decreased grooming, decreased appetite; increased anxiety, including restlessness, agitation, and/or separation distress.


Wishing you and Miss Maya good luck and sending you big hugs and lots of love. Miss Maya is lucky to have you and vice versa.
 
My first thought was that you need to get her eyes tested too, it could be failing vision causing the disorientation rather than dementia.
 
She could be losing her vision, that is true.

My oldest who is somewhere between 18-20 (got her in 2000 and she was a young adult with a baby kitten) has begun howling at random times in the past year as well. Usually after she eats....she sometimes gets confused about her box as well but her vision still seems ok.

I hope a vet visit can answer some of the questions for you.

For the box porblem, it's sometimes better to keep a very low walled box for older pets. They often get arthritis and it can hurt to get in and out of taller boxes. Keeping a very low walled box can help with that, and keeping another box in another part of the house she frequents, in case she gets confused and can't find her regular box or its too far to go.
 
Have you had her looked at for UTI issues? My cat started missing the litter box and started yowling and thats what it was.
He was missing the litter box because the UTI causes urgency so he couldnt hold it until he made it into the box. The yowling...
well, he was in pain. It is more common in males than females but females get it too.

They put him on antibiotics twice and now that he is on a prescription cat food he has been doing fine.

I hope you are able to find out what it is. Getting old aint easy for anyone! :(
 
Thank you all for the insight and suggestions. I will take her to the vet for more testing, though I won't be able to do so until next week.

(I have tried removing the "collar" from her litter box, but that only seemed to make matters worse. I've put a faux litter box - a shallow tray lined with a puppy training pad - in the area of the house furthest from the litter box, and she's used that in the past but missed it by a few feet just yesterday. For some reason Maya "gets" what puppy training pads are for, probably because Ive used them in her crate for extended trips.)
 
VRBeauty, it sounds like you are doing all the right things to make her feel more comfortably. It is heartbreaking when you think they are suffering in any way. Unfortunately it's also part of having and loving our furbabies. All we can do is give them the best possible life.
 
I'm so sorry about your kitty. Sounds like you're doing all the right things to me, but I think she could be dealing with vision loss among other things. Greyhounds are amazingly stoic about serious ailments (though if the wind hits her the wrong way...GSOD!! :lol: ) So it can be something else when they're sick. Do keep us in the loop what the vet says. Lots of hugs and dust for both of you.
 
VRBeauty|1489173099|4138936 said:
Thank you all for the insight and suggestions. I will take her to the vet for more testing, though I won't be able to do so until next week.

(I have tried removing the "collar" from her litter box, but that only seemed to make matters worse. I've put a faux litter box - a shallow tray lined with a puppy training pad - in the area of the house furthest from the litter box, and she's used that in the past but missed it by a few feet just yesterday. For some reason Maya "gets" what puppy training pads are for, probably because Ive used them in her crate for extended trips.)


Try putting a puppy training pad under her actual box. I do that because one of ours sometimes can't keep her tail down all the way when she's in a box (sits down just fine outside).

Is it possible she's become sensitive to the litter you are using and it's irritating her feet? (Just trying to brain storm a little....)
 
Healing vibes Miss M's way! :wavey:

Great advice folks!

cheers--Sharon
 
Love to you and Maya.

You've put good thought and problem-solving to work here. My Finn (avatar) is 14-1/2 and I note his vision isn't quite what I was, nor is his hearing. I see the confused look on his sweet face occasionally and I wonder if its cognitive decline.

I'd want to get uti ruled out.

Maya is so lucky to have you; after all, your love and care got her to the age she now is.
 
bunnycat|1489189402|4139068 said:
VRBeauty|1489173099|4138936 said:
Thank you all for the insight and suggestions. I will take her to the vet for more testing, though I won't be able to do so until next week.

(I have tried removing the "collar" from her litter box, but that only seemed to make matters worse. I've put a faux litter box - a shallow tray lined with a puppy training pad - in the area of the house furthest from the litter box, and she's used that in the past but missed it by a few feet just yesterday. For some reason Maya "gets" what puppy training pads are for, probably because Ive used them in her crate for extended trips.)


Try putting a puppy training pad under her actual box. I do that because one of ours sometimes can't keep her tail down all the way when she's in a box (sits down just fine outside).

Is it possible she's become sensitive to the litter you are using and it's irritating her feet? (Just trying to brain storm a little....)
Hi bunnycat: I started putting puppy pads in front of her box a few weeks ago. They've made life so much easier! I also keep a bottle of natures miracle and a roll of paper towels nearby, just in case. ;) Finer textured litter is something to consider, though. The litter were using currently is not terribly course or rough, but… I think Dr. Elseys makes some finely textured litter for kittens so I might give that a try.

I have a vet appointment for Maye for early next week. I lucked out and was able to get it and appointment with her regular Veterinarian - the practice we go to seems to be ridiculously oversubscribed these days.

Thanks everyone for the good wishes and terrific suggestions.
 
There are some homeopathic UTI treatments I found on amazon. I tried a few but he is a very picky eater and refused to eat it
(wouldnt you know our other cat eats anything and everything). You might look into those if it is UTI. I think cranberry helps
them just like humans...
 
I said goodbye to Miss Maya today.

MB, pearlsgems, and others were right - Maya had suffered a significant loss of vision along with her hearing. The vet was able to rule out the possibility that high blood pressure, the only cause of vision loss that has a good chance of being reversible, as the cause. We didn't go any further in testing as the other causes are not readily reversible (or not reversible at all). She was also battling a respiratory infection and other inflammations, and would likely have had to start treatments for reduced kidney function soon. And those other possible causes of blindness? The most likely culprits are leukemia or a fungal infection, each of which would likely go on to cause even more damage.

When I took her home from the vet yesterday it was with the intention of getting her over the respiratory infection so she could at least regain her sense of smell, and then seeing how that might lessen her disorientation and restore some quality of life. Overnight though I came to realize that probably wasn't going to happen; that keeping her would mean confining her to a very limited space and probably not even allowing her to sleep on the bed with me, and that she'd be left with very little of what she enjoyed in life. When her vet called to give me the results of the latest blood work, it was clear she had reached the same conclusion.

So Maya and I spent the day hanging out together, and spent time in the back yard, and then took one last trip to the vet.

Maya never wanted much to do with Squeaky but he was a very magnanimous kitty, and I like to think that he was there to greet her when she crossed over.

Her "given" name, by the way, was just "Maya." For some reason vet techs, pet sitters, etc. all felt that her true proper name was "Miss Maya!" :lol:
 
HI:

Dear Maya...you will be "Miss"ed. :saint: Such a good Mama VRB. :halo:

kind regards, Sharon
 
Condolences VR. It's never easy to say goodbye even when we know it's the right thing to do. I hope you'll take comfort in that she lived a very long life as a well-loved family member. Hugs.
 
Aww, so sorry you had to say goodbye to your furry buddy, VR. It sounds like you and Miss Maya had a wonderful life together and you did right by her at the end. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
 
VRBeauty - I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your furbaby, (Miss) Maya. It is so hard saying goodbye and letting them go. Many ((hugs)) to you.
 
I'm so sorry VR. It's really hard when furry friends have to leave us :( But I think you did the right thing for Miss Maya, and you are a great cat owner.
 
VRBeauty|1489624194|4140695 said:
I said goodbye to Miss Maya today.

MB, pearlsgems, and others were right - Maya had suffered a significant loss of vision along with her hearing. The vet was able to rule out the possibility that high blood pressure, the only cause of vision loss that has a good chance of being reversible, as the cause. We didn't go any further in testing as the other causes are not readily reversible (or not reversible at all). She was also battling a respiratory infection and other inflammations, and would likely have had to start treatments for reduced kidney function soon. And those other possible causes of blindness? The most likely culprits are leukemia or a fungal infection, each of which would likely go on to cause even more damage.

When I took her home from the vet yesterday it was with the intention of getting her over the respiratory infection so she could at least regain her sense of smell, and then seeing how that might lessen her disorientation and restore some quality of life. Overnight though I came to realize that probably wasn't going to happen; that keeping her would mean confining her to a very limited space and probably not even allowing her to sleep on the bed with me, and that she'd be left with very little of what she enjoyed in life. When her vet called to give me the results of the latest blood work, it was clear she had reached the same conclusion.

So Maya and I spent the day hanging out together, and spent time in the back yard, and then took one last trip to the vet.

Maya never wanted much to do with Squeaky but he was a very magnanimous kitty, and I like to think that he was there to greet her when she crossed over.

Her "given" name, by the way, was just "Maya." For some reason vet techs, pet sitters, etc. all felt that her true proper name was "Miss Maya!" :lol:

Oh VR, I am so sorry to hear this. It sounds like a perfect day and a great leave taking for her. What a great caregiver you have been for her. And yeah, I like to think that all her departed friends and loved ones, and all the good spirits of the World, were there waiting to welcome her.
 
That is sad news. Maya was cherished and loved, that is certain. Love and peace to you.---Kristie
 
I am so sorry for your loss VRBeauty. Maya knew how much she was loved and cherished and you gave her a wonderful life. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
 
I'm sorry VRBeauty. I hope the fond memories of Maya offer you comfort as you grieve.
 
Oh I am so sorry VRBeauty. :(sad :((

Sending you hugs.
 
I'm so sorry sending lots of hugs your way too!!!
 
VRBeauty - I am so sorry for your loss. It's never easy to make that decision to say good-by to our furbabies even though we know it's the best for them. Sending you a long distance hug.
 
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