How many affected by cheating?

[sunnyd]

I was 16 year old hussy! I knew the guy had a girlfriend and went after it anyway. No sex though. Gimme the letter!

I haven''t been cheated on that I know of, but in college my BF broke up with me to go out with the girl down the hall.

 

[luckynumber]

started a relationship with a guy who told me he was separated.

wife was oblivious, in another state.

he asked for a divorce as soon as he met me, but it still took years.

with such inauspicious beginnings, it''s no wonder it did not work out for us.

 

[Diamond*Dana]

My HS boyfriend cheated on me...I was a senior, he was in the air force. We got engaged and broke up a month later. I asked him if there was someone else and he said no. I found out a few months later that he had been cheating on me, so I got even. I had his calling card number and let my sister call her boyfriend at college on my ex''s dime. He never did mention it to me

 

[vespergirl]

I''ll admit it - I had a cheating problem in college, and ruined the best relationship of my life with the man who was probably my soulmate, if you believe in such things. He took me back after the first time I cheated, but would not after the second time. One of the biggest regrets of my life.

 

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 3/24/2010 4:04:25 PM
Author: Irishgrrrl
I have cheated. And I have been a mistress. Never been cheated on, though (that I know of).

IG...did you get a mistress diamond ring?

 

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 3/24/2010 4:06:33 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 3/24/2010 3:53:23 PM
Author: Dancing Fire

Date: 3/24/2010 3:24:23 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

I cheated on a hs bf by kissing someone else when I was mad at said bf. It ended the relationship and I''ve been scarred ever since. I''ve been cheated on as well.

kissing don''t count.

Uh, yea, it ended the relationship and was physical interaction with someone other than my SO at the time. I''d consider it cheating.

okay then...how about shaking hands would that be consider cheating too?

 

[gemgirl]

Count me in as the victim..... twice.

 

[gemgirl]

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
I just did.

I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.

When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Date: 3/24/2010 6:29:47 PM
Author: Dancing Fire

Date: 3/24/2010 4:06:33 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 3/24/2010 3:53:23 PM

Author: Dancing Fire

Date: 3/24/2010 3:24:23 PM


Author: Hudson_Hawk


I cheated on a hs bf by kissing someone else when I was mad at said bf. It ended the relationship and I''ve been scarred ever since. I''ve been cheated on as well.

kissing don''t count.

Uh, yea, it ended the relationship and was physical interaction with someone other than my SO at the time. I''d consider it cheating.

okay then...how about shaking hands would that be consider cheating too?

DF, I admit I misspoke. What I meant was physical interaction of a sexual or more intimate nature, not a peck on the cheek, not a hug, not shaking hands.

 

[elrohwen]

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM
Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
I just did.

I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.

When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny "pebbles"?? (if you know what I mean)

 

[gemgirl]

Date: 3/24/2010 6:50:22 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM
Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
I just did.

I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.

When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny ''pebbles''?? (if you know what I mean)

Exactly! A little messy, but exactly!

 

[JSM]

I''ve never physically cheated - emotionally, though, I have. I was also 16, and went from one relationship to another. I''m sure my ex feels I cheated, but I didn''t. I waited until that relationship was over. Still not the right thing to do, but I was 16 and he went to college 6 hours away. It would have never worked out, anyway - "Relationships" that start so young rarely do!

To my knowledge I have never been cheated on, but it would not surprise me with one of my exes.

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

Date: 3/24/2010 6:50:22 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM

Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM

Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

I just did.


I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.


When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny ''pebbles''?? (if you know what I mean)

You are not a monkey, we do not throw poop!

 

[doodle]

Date: 3/24/2010 7:21:57 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 3/24/2010 6:50:22 PM

Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM


Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM


Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM


Author: Hudson_Hawk


I just did.



I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.



When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny ''pebbles''?? (if you know what I mean)

You are not a monkey, we do not throw poop!

Thanks, Harlot. I just love having to explain to my husband why I''m snorting.

 

[doodle]

LMAO! Didn''t realize I actually called you Harlot until after I posted, but the slip was too funny to edit! Sorry, Hudson!

 

[Hudson_Hawk]

NP Doods!

 

[LtlFirecracker]

Been cheated on once right after college.

 

[Maisie]

Date: 3/24/2010 7:31:16 PM
Author: doodle
LMAO! Didn''t realize I actually called you Harlot until after I posted, but the slip was too funny to edit! Sorry, Hudson!

Hahahaha!!!!

 

[gemgirl]

Date: 3/24/2010 7:21:57 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 3/24/2010 6:50:22 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM

Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM

Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

I just did.


I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.


When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny ''pebbles''?? (if you know what I mean)

You are not a monkey, we do not throw poop!

Just think of them as cocoa pebbles!

 

[waxing lyrical]

Yep. Been cheated on by two boyfriends.

 

[Kaleigh]

Luckily I haven''t been cheated on, nor have cheated. But my best friend from High school, her Ex cheated on her after gosh 18 years of marriage. He ended up giving her an STD!!!! I wanted to strangle him.

He used to be such a stand up kind of guy, a person I really liked... Now?? Not so much.

 

[elrohwen]

Date: 3/24/2010 8:24:11 PM
Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 7:21:57 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 3/24/2010 6:50:22 PM
Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 6:37:01 PM

Author: gemgirl

Date: 3/24/2010 3:51:54 PM

Author: elrohwen

Date: 3/24/2010 3:46:39 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

I just did.


I suppose you can say I was also DH''s mistress for a short time. He was separated but not officially divorced. By some of the more conservative, traditional standards I''d be considered a home wrecking harlot.

Harlot!! Can I throw stones at you now?

You can only throw pebbles el. She was just a teenager and it was only a kiss.


When you get to be our age, then you can throw boulders!

Well, apparently I''m only allowed to throw my bunneh at her

Does that mean I can throw bunny ''pebbles''?? (if you know what I mean)

You are not a monkey, we do not throw poop!

Just think of them as cocoa pebbles!

Or cocoa puffs!

 

[megumic]

I have not cheated, nor been cheated on. However, my father is a cheater. It''s been the most challenging, depressing, heart wrenching experience of my life thus far. I won''t complain b/c it could be a heck of a lot worse, but cheating sure does mess up families.

 

[dragonfly411]

El - that''s just wrong..


I am LOLOLOLING now

 

[Irishgrrrl]

Date: 3/24/2010 6:22:38 PM
Author: Dancing Fire

Date: 3/24/2010 4:04:25 PM
Author: Irishgrrrl
I have cheated. And I have been a mistress. Never been cheated on, though (that I know of).

IG...did you get a mistress diamond ring?

Sure did! It''s called my engagement ring, and I''m wearing it right now!

 

[kama_s]

Neither for me.

My mother cheated on my father. Incidentally, my maternal grandmother also cheated on her husband. Neither was remorseful for said behaviour, plenty of excuses and justifications. Pathetic.

 

[Mannequin]

Cheating is a deal breaker for me and I would never do it to anyone. Never been cheated on, either.

FI, however, was cheated on in both of his longest relationships before me, multiple times by the most recent of these two girls. The experiences were heartbreaking for him. He definitely had some baggage from this that we had to deal with at the beginning of our relationship. The last chick really did a number on him with her cheating and with her poor girlfriend behavior in general. I can''t believe he put up with her for so long.

 

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 3/24/2010 10:42:29 PM
Author: Irishgrrrl

Date: 3/24/2010 6:22:38 PM
Author: Dancing Fire

Date: 3/24/2010 4:04:25 PM
Author: Irishgrrrl
I have cheated. And I have been a mistress. Never been cheated on, though (that I know of).

IG...did you get a mistress diamond ring?

Sure did! It's called my engagement ring, and I'm wearing it right now!

FYI...the mistress always get a bigger diamond than the wife.

am i right?

 

[Echidna]

Date: 3/24/2010 10:28:31 PM
Author: megumic
I have not cheated, nor been cheated on. However, my father is a cheater. It''s been the most challenging, depressing, heart wrenching experience of my life thus far. I won''t complain b/c it could be a heck of a lot worse, but cheating sure does mess up families.

Ditto and ditto. I''m with you, megumic. Not so easy...

 

[wsu12]

I have been cheated on. And I have cheated. Both happened in the same relationship in College(10 years ago).

I suspect I was cheated on in another long term relationship after college...never got him to admit it.