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Super_Ideal_Rock
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Well we''re leaving on Friday for our trip to NY and I can''t wait to go. D and I are purchasing our e-ring over there and while it was never confirmed that he was going to do it over there, I was secretly hoping that he would. Well he''s not. He said that he wanted it to be special and a surprise and that he can never do it as a surprise while we''re over there as I would always suspect something wherever we go (which is true!, but still..). So I asked well when are you planning to do it and his answer was soon. Well we all know the difference between girl soon and boy soon, which I told him and asked him what soon meant to him-his answer-within a year! How is that soon to a man-I honestly just do not get it. He asked me what soon was for me and I told him within about 3 weeks. We came to the conclusion that he would do it by the end of the year. Im just so over being a LIW and I was really hoping that he would do it over there. I mean why buy the ring if you aren''t going to do it! It just doesn''t make sense to me-how can he wait so long. I don''t even want a surprise proposal and when I told him that, he told me that it''s something that he wants to do! I don''t know if I can wait up to another 6 months-the thoughts of it is driving me mental. I know that if it doesn''t happen this summer it won''t happen until christmas as once Im back to college Im not going to have time for a nice break anywhere or anything like that for him to do a surprise and he doesn''t want to do it at home. Thanks for listening to my rant!