I find that I have the hardest time committing to a setting. I look at my wishlist and I know what I want for a certain bday, holiday, anniversary, and I have an idea but then the "I don''t want to be committed part of me sets in". I have a hard time buying five of something just to change it out. I usually buy one item for certain activities or events and I usually wear that one item over and over. example. I have stud earrings one set bezel, and I know that is the only studs I will ever own. I won''t have a few hanging around. Another example is a colored gem, I only want one of a certain color for a ring (whethter it be a spinel, sapphire, tourmaline or other), and maybe of the same color for a pendant but only one color for each each wearing party (whether that is for my finger or for my neck). I only buy jewelry for a specific purpose in mind. So you do have commitment issues with jewelry yourself? or am I the only one?