Dixie!

[Independent Gal]

Saw your post in asccherisme''s thread, and was just wondering how you''re doing these days.

 

[Independent Gal]

bump!

 

[akw94]

Hi Inde,
Thanks for the post. I am doing ok. My ex and I have decided to keep working on our relationship. He is still moving out of town for work and so we will work on things long distance for awhile. He says that he is committed to us, and I am as well as long as he truly is serious. I think time will be a good indicator for both of us and the effort that is made while he is away. I am hopeful, but I know that everyone in my life doesn''t agree. Given everything, I understand that. I realize that I am taking a risk but it feels worth it to me. I also know that no matter what, I will be ok. That is something that I realized before he and I decided to try again. It took me awhile to get there but I feel stronger now, no matter what happens.
My son is doing ok, and we have talked to him about the recent changes. I also started seeing a Psychologist and am pretty happy with the person I chose. I think it will be good for me.
I know that not everyone on here will agree or support the decision to try again, but it is what I feel is right in my heart.
Thank you again for asking. I''ve thought about updating on here but given that my update wasn''t what most were wanting for me, I wasn''t sure.

 

[KimberlyH]

Dixie,

No one can decide what is right for you and your son but you. What I, and the rest of the peanut gallery, want for you is happiness and contentment in your life. If you are finding that in attempting to make your relationship work then I am happy for you.

Please, continue to take good care of yourself, for your sake and that of your son.

~K

 

[Catmom]

Dixie, you are a beautiful person! You need to do what is best for you and not worry about what others will think. I''m happy that you are seeing someone that you can talk things over with and that you are feeling stronger. I sincerely hope things work out for you.

 

[bee*]

I agree-you have to do what''s best for you and your son, and if you''re happy that''s the main thing. I really really hope that it all works out for the two of you.

 

[akw94]

Kimberly, thank you for your support. I am doing my best to take care of myself and my son.

Michelle, thank you! I appreciate your kind words.

Bee, I hope it works out too, and I am happy with the decision that I''ve made.

Thank you ladies, your words and support mean a lot.