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4ever

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My neighbour is a psycho, really, and things are just getting stupid.

She is, to begin with, just a really weird and unfriendly person. The problem is she is bazarly territorial about ''her'' drive way. The driveway is long and shared with our other (normal) neighbour who lives away from the street behind our house. Our driveway is sepperated from hers by trees and lawn but has a turn around/parking area which is connected to ''her'' driveway.

There are 5 people living here currently, all of whome have a car. Earlyer this year, when she had not been living there long, we had one car parked in the garage, one behind the garage, my sister parked in the turn around/parking space next to her drive and SO parked behind her. This worked fine but ment that for my sister to get out she would drive up the turnaround and down the neighbours driveway.

The problems start when the phsyco womman next door saw her doing this, stood there and gave her a look of death and walked off. We thought well, maybe she has a problem with this but I can''t see why. Surly if she has a problem she''ll come talk to us about it. Later that week my sister went to leave and found piles of nails and bolts infrount of her car between her parking space and the neighbours drive. We suspected it was phsyco woman but thought, no, no grown woman is that juvinile that she would leave piles of nails and risk damaging my sisters car instead of just asking us not to use her drive.

We stopped using her drive and instead SO and I both parked on the road so my sister could move her car out of the space with out using the crazy ladys drive.

The next week the lawnmower ran over a bolt we hadn''t managed to spot to pick up that had rolled off the parking space onto the lawn. The lawnmower is now broken.

On sunday this week, my sister went out to her car and found plastic garbage bags full of rocks had been left in her parking space in frount of our car. BLACK garbage bag which are not visable at night time. Obvously psycho wanted to see if she was still using the drive by weather or not they got run over. My mum moved the bags out of the way to the neighbours side of the fence further up the drive. Surly no one is this immature? Mum emailed nut-job and told her she would be ringing her tomorrow to discuss this problem.

The next morning my mum was getting ready and hurd our crazy neightbour and her loonitic husband on the drive talking loudly about what B$%#s we all were etc. My mun went out to confrount our neighbours about the garbage bags and they lied their asses off for 5 mins, telling her it was rubbish to be left out to be collected (it was a sunday night, rubbish gets collected on friday, and who throws out bags of rocks?) and then when mum said she didn''t want rubbish left on our property they said it wasn''t rubbish and so on. My mum said this isn''t the first time they have done somthing like this and they did not deney that but stormed off angrly.

My mum later phoned her and her excuse is that we might run over her toddler. Well, my sister can''t go fast when turning onto their drive, is facing forwards not reversing and their house is gated off so how the kid could run off down the drive unsupervised anyway is beyond me. Anyway, my mum let her know that it was unnaceptable behaviour from a grown woman and she would NOT be leving anything in frount of my sisters car again.

My mum later emailed the woman who lives behind us and shares the driveway with the crazy woman to tell her what was going on. Turns out, we''re not the only ones. There is a turn around point at the top of the long drive so that cars coming back down the drive towords the road can do a 3 point turn and not have to reverse down the drive. Psycho has told our nice neighbour she could not use the part of the turn around on ''her side'' of the driveway and has stormed out and yelled at one of the nice neighbours friends for using it. She then put her rubbish bins on the turn around which is legally shared property so that nice neighbour and those visting her couldn''t use it. right.... This turns out to by why my car (which I''d only had for a week) which has to be parked on the road and happened to be parked opposit her drive way was reversed into and crummpled by a large van. The van could not use the turn around and was forced to back out of the long drive and onto the road.

Nice neighbour has sold her house and will move out next month, crazy neighbour was part of the desision to go. Crazy neighbour is saying she wil put up a fence between out parking spot and ''her'' driveway. She legally needs to have council consent and consent from both us and nice neighbour to do so. We will not consent. If she puts it up anyway we''re taking it down.

She''s just being rediculous and petty. I can''t belive this is a grown woman. It makes me mad because she just dosn''t care about how dangourous and disrespectful the things she''s done are. If my sister had not seen the piles of nails and driven over them, they could puncture her tires which damages her property or at worse the damage could go unnoticed untill she drive on the moterway and her tired shreaded, no dought causing an accedent. The least the rock could have done is damaged her car. I truly feel sorry for this womans kids.

Sorry for the rant but has anyone else had to deal with this kind of rediculous behavious from a neighbour? Anything you can suggest to deal with it or better, make her move out?!
 
not THAT bad but we do have neighbors that like to get wasted outside in their garage and rev their motorcycle engines at 1am on week nights when the rest of us who have to work in the morning are trying to SLEEP!!! They hate us now because we called in a noise complaint and now whenever they see us they give us dirty looks but we are moving in a week so what do we care haha
 
My advice...put the house up for sell and move! This person (the wacko) should not have bought a house
that has shared anything. They should live on a 5 acre (minimum) lot in the middle of no where. I have
a feeling that this lady is going to continue to make your life (and the rest of her neighbors) misserable
whenever possible. I''m sorry...I wish I had better news. I would be contacting the police whenever things
showed up in front of the cars (especially nails). It will show the neighbors that you mean business. Let them
lie their a$$'' off to the cops.
 
My post was just deleted!! Here''s the short version...I feel for you, it''s a terrible situation, I agree that you should call the police if there are future incidents, maybe a police report will be important down the road...it doesn''t seem fair for you to have to move, but is it feasible? This woman isn''t going to change, it might be easier to move than deal with her unpredictable behavior, she sounds really wierd. I''m so sorry you are going through this!
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My neighbour is a prostitute. The landlord is kicking her out.
 
Gosh I feel for you. My thought?? Move now.. You don''t want to deal with this wacko. The police can only do so much... I am sorry you are dealing with this. It sounds horrible.
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Smurfy- that moterbike at 1am is a bit rude. Some people are just really self centered and inconsiderate.

tyty333- I know right?! If you are that territorial about what you think is yours, why on earth would you buy a property with a shared drive? It''s hard to contact the police for somthing so silly and petty that you cant prove who did it. If she puts up that damn fence or anything she does causes danage to property we''ll call the cops.

junebug- I hate it when my posts are deleted! It''s always after I''ve written a really good long one too. I don''t think we''ll be moving anytime soon. My parents are in the process of some expensive renovations to update the house and I think they''ll want to stick round to enjoy them. I''m hopeing just standing up to her bullying tactics will make her back off.

Cindygenit- Is porsitiution legal in AUS? It is here.

Kaleigh- thank you for your empathy. Movings not really an option. My parents like the house and the area and now is a pretty crappy time to sell a house. SO and I will move out in November once I have graduated. I do worry that she''ll take it too far and do somthing to one of out cats or turtles
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4ever- not sure if it is legal or not... i think they masquerade themselves as massage therapists/ massage parlour. When my landlord found out she was enraged to say the least, and she''s a pretty calm person LOL

I might have been a bit harsh in implying she is a phycho. Although she has a really bad attitude and not very neighbourly.
 
You could always put our a video camera and tape them in the act so you have proof when you damage your car because of their negligence or harassment and you sue.
 
Date: 10/7/2009 12:09:30 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk
You could always put our a video camera and tape them in the act so you have proof when you damage your car because of their negligence or harassment and you sue.
If the crap continues SO says he''ll put up a CCTV camera.
 
Camera is a great idea. There are some inexpensive options out there that would probably work just fine.

You should get them up soon. Don''t want to wait for something bad to happen. Then it would be too late.


I''d worry about your animals too. This woman sounds crazy enough that she just might hurt them. Can they be kept inside?
 
Date: 10/6/2009 10:54:22 PM
Author: 4ever
I do worry that she''ll take it too far and do somthing to one of out cats or turtles
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My parents moved because a neighbor tried to kill our cat. Seriously. She used to lay under a bush on their front lawn and they killed it with pesticides. Their stupid children threw rocks at her.
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We got the hell out.

The police won''t do anything?
 
Date: 10/7/2009 4:03:57 PM
Author: TooPatient
Camera is a great idea. There are some inexpensive options out there that would probably work just fine.

You should get them up soon. Don''t want to wait for something bad to happen. Then it would be too late.


I''d worry about your animals too. This woman sounds crazy enough that she just might hurt them. Can they be kept inside?
Love the camera idea. Gosh I feel terrible you have to worry about your pets too. I may have missed this, but did you file a police report, just to let them know you are being harassed and such?? I know the police need proof, so any camera video will be most helpful.

God I hate that people have to deal with this, like hello, life is tough enough and now YOU have to be detective ??? Boggles my mind.

My neighbor across from us turned our quiet street upside down. It''s a private street, and she was running a business out of her
house.

We had to take it to the local board, and I showed up with pics. She had gotten up before me, and said she has family and friends that show up pretty regularly....

I got up and said I would like to submitt my pics. Friends and family don''t come to your house at 8:30 and leave at 5:00. Monday through friday.
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AND because this is a private street., May I submitt for evidence the flyers advertising sales at her house???
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Showed the pics of the cars blocking driveways, and fire Hydrants. This was a real hit!!!!

They threw it to her Attorney to redirect, meaning asking me lots of questions. He said, no I have no questions.

THat was the highlight, as he''s a kick ass attorney around here, the best.... I silenced him and loved evey minute.

After I spoke, my husband and neighbors were like way to go!! You squashed her...
 
My neighbor bought the house between us and demolished it. He seeded it and turned it into a big play yard for his three kids. We live on the highway so he fenced the three sides excluding the side closest to the highway. Between us he cut my driveway in half leaving me exactly the width of my car plus one foot between his fence and the biggest oak tree on the street which is in my yard next to my driveway. I asked him if he could back it off a couple feet so I could still pull into the driveway and he said it''s his property. Turns out it''s part of an easement into an alley according to city drawings so he wins. And he made the first post of the fence a steel post so now I have to swing wide through the other lane of traffic to pull precisely into my driveway. It''s going to be even more challenging when winter comes along. I don''t speak to him anymore.
 
nahhh....Kaleigh lives 3,000 miles away from us !!. the devil made me say it.
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dinnertime!!
 
So, I opened this post thinking it wouldn''t be that bad. This woman sounds seriously ill. My sympathies.
 
Thanks everyone. The cameras are likely to just piss her off more so I don''t want to put them up unless she does somthing to warrent it. I don''t want to bother the police with a petty quarel with a neighbour unless I have some proof that she''s doing something that really warrents it.

Dad and SO moved a big pot plant between the parking space and crazy''s drive as a "Seeeee, we are NOT using you stupid drive way" so hopefully she will chill out and leave us alone.

Sunnyd, I think someone has to be seriously f#@%ed up to try and kill a cat
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I''m sorry to hear that starset princess, that''s just really inconsiderate of him.

Anyway, got to go, SO is complaining at me to come to bed so he can sleep. I''ll keep you updated. More then anything I just need to vent about this. Thanks everyone.
 
I know calling the police for something like this might seem like a "bother" to them, but I really think you should do it anyway. Some of the things she's doing could potentially be very dangerous (like the nuts and bolts) and she doesn't seem the type to back off. If her scare tactics get much worse, it would definitely be good for the police to already have a record of the things she's doing now.

I'm really sorry you're dealing with such a crazy person next door. It sounds pretty scary.
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ETA: I also think a camera is a great idea. Is there any way to put it up in a place where she wouldn't notice it?
 
Date: 10/8/2009 6:55:59 AM
Author: 4ever
Thanks everyone. The cameras are likely to just piss her off more so I don''t want to put them up unless she does somthing to warrent it. I don''t want to bother the police with a petty quarel with a neighbour unless I have some proof that she''s doing something that really warrents it.


Dad and SO moved a big pot plant between the parking space and crazy''s drive as a ''Seeeee, we are NOT using you stupid drive way'' so hopefully she will chill out and leave us alone.


Sunnyd, I think someone has to be seriously f#@%ed up to try and kill a cat
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I''m sorry to hear that starset princess, that''s just really inconsiderate of him.


Anyway, got to go, SO is complaining at me to come to bed so he can sleep. I''ll keep you updated. More then anything I just need to vent about this. Thanks everyone.

Personally I think her actions already warrant the camera, but that''s just my opinion.

Your husband moved a big pot plant between the parking space and her driveway? Huh, interesting tactic. Hopefully the pot will mellow her out...or give her a bad case of the munchies!
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I am very sorry you are having to deal with this. She is certainly psycho. I know you don''t want to bother the police with a petty argument, and if this were a one-time incident, I''d be inclined to agree with you. Since she is repeatedly doing things to make you miserable, I would reconsider informing the police. This way you are at least on record with complaints and will have everything documented God forbid things escalate and there is serious damage to one of your cars, or worse, you or a family member. I agree that the cameras are a great idea - the more evidence you have, the better.
DF and HH - thanks for the laughs!
 
Date: 10/8/2009 8:20:24 AM
Author: PaulaW
I am very sorry you are having to deal with this. She is certainly psycho. I know you don''t want to bother the police with a petty argument, and if this were a one-time incident, I''d be inclined to agree with you. Since she is repeatedly doing things to make you miserable, I would reconsider informing the police. This way you are at least on record with complaints and will have everything documented God forbid things escalate and there is serious damage to one of your cars, or worse, you or a family member. I agree that the cameras are a great idea - the more evidence you have, the better.
DF and HH - thanks for the laughs!
Agree...you should be calling the police for documentation purposes and also agree with HH that what she has already done
warrants cameras.

Starsetprincess - what every happen to being neighborly...him angling the fence a couple of feet from your drive wouldnt
have killed him would it?
 
Date: 10/8/2009 8:06:36 AM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 10/8/2009 6:55:59 AM
Author: 4ever
Thanks everyone. The cameras are likely to just piss her off more so I don''t want to put them up unless she does somthing to warrent it. I don''t want to bother the police with a petty quarel with a neighbour unless I have some proof that she''s doing something that really warrents it.


Dad and SO moved a big pot plant between the parking space and crazy''s drive as a ''Seeeee, we are NOT using you stupid drive way'' so hopefully she will chill out and leave us alone.


Sunnyd, I think someone has to be seriously f#@%ed up to try and kill a cat
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I''m sorry to hear that starset princess, that''s just really inconsiderate of him.


Anyway, got to go, SO is complaining at me to come to bed so he can sleep. I''ll keep you updated. More then anything I just need to vent about this. Thanks everyone.

Personally I think her actions already warrant the camera, but that''s just my opinion.

Your husband moved a big pot plant between the parking space and her driveway? Huh, interesting tactic. Hopefully the pot will mellow her out...or give her a bad case of the munchies!
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Lol, Hmmmmm, should I be making her a peace offering of ''special'' brownies then?

I''m keeping positive that she will stop with the BS, atleast untill crazy''s new neighbour moves in next month, then, depending on what kind of people they are, it might start up again. I just feel really really sorry for them, they have no idea their nice new house shares a drive with a territorial nutjob.
 
Ok, I have to add this story because it made me feel alot better about my nutty neighbour. One of my class mates at uni told me about his next door neighbour at his parents house who is pretty crazy too. To cut it short she has called the cops on him and his brother twice; once she called the cops and accused him and his brother of breaking into her house and installing broudband internet (!!!????) and the second time she told the police they broke into her house and stole all her ink cateriges.
 
Just please be careful if they seem to start to get violent. 2 people in the county where I''m living were shot by their neighbor who was really similarly possesive of his property.

Some people are just totally off their rocker.
 
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