CNYHopeful
Shiny_Rock
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So last weekend, we''re having dinner at my boyfriend''s house. He had his parents, his sister and her best friend (ex-boyfriend) over. The backstory is that his sister and her friend used to date way back in high school and 8 years later he''s madly in love with her and everybody thinks they should get married except for her. So over dinner she shows me this absolutely stunning white gold diamond ring with a gorgeous sapphire in the middle that her friend gave her for her birthday. So, I told her I love the ring, but I think my slight jealousy came out. They aren''t even dating!
Now, over a year ago I told my boyfriend that I love saphires and wouldn''t mind having a couple on a certain ring when the time came. My BF bought a house 5 months ago and has been telling me about all of the winter payments he''s concerned about and that it''ll be awhile before he can save up enough to provide for a proper wedding & ring. I know he has a good amount saved already though. The thing that got my attention was after showing me the ring, his sister says to my boyfriend "Remind me I have to give you my work schedule so we can get dad''s Christmas present this week". Part of me wishes that that was code for looking at engagement rings, but I don''t want to be reading in to this too much. We''ve decided that we''re not going to look at rings together.
What do you think?
Now, over a year ago I told my boyfriend that I love saphires and wouldn''t mind having a couple on a certain ring when the time came. My BF bought a house 5 months ago and has been telling me about all of the winter payments he''s concerned about and that it''ll be awhile before he can save up enough to provide for a proper wedding & ring. I know he has a good amount saved already though. The thing that got my attention was after showing me the ring, his sister says to my boyfriend "Remind me I have to give you my work schedule so we can get dad''s Christmas present this week". Part of me wishes that that was code for looking at engagement rings, but I don''t want to be reading in to this too much. We''ve decided that we''re not going to look at rings together.