As many of you know, i am going through a crappy divorce. Anyway, over xmas i am doinf xmas eve dinner with my folks and immediate family. I had mentioned to my mom (when she asked me) not to invite extended fam this year as i just do not feel like facing everyone.
Well i iust found out she did it anyway. Ok not the end of the world. However, she suggested i just make an excuse as to why my hubby is not there!!!! Um excuse me! Cannot you not just tell them so i am not put in an awkward position! What if i break down crying?! I find that to be very insensitive. After i got upset she said she would tell them if i wanted, but then made a comment about me getting angry over everything.....it kind of hurts me that she is more worried about what others think , rather than how i feel....
Well i iust found out she did it anyway. Ok not the end of the world. However, she suggested i just make an excuse as to why my hubby is not there!!!! Um excuse me! Cannot you not just tell them so i am not put in an awkward position! What if i break down crying?! I find that to be very insensitive. After i got upset she said she would tell them if i wanted, but then made a comment about me getting angry over everything.....it kind of hurts me that she is more worried about what others think , rather than how i feel....