Wedding 2 MOHs?

[PearlDahhhling]

So I did a search on this topic and read some previous posts about it, but still wanted to see if I could get some advice about my personal situation, so if you can help me out it will be greatly appreciated!

I am on the verge of getting engaged, the ring is in the house and I''m sure the proposal will be any day now.

For the past week or two I''ve been making up little "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" type cards that I intend to send out a week or two following the engagement.

I am planning on having my FFs younger sister and one of my good friends be bridesmaids but I''m struggling with my MOH. I have my "best friend" who I''ve always thought would be my MOH. We''ve been friends since junior high school and we''ve always talked about being one another''s MOH when we got married. But then I have this other friend of mine who is great too! We don''t talk as often as my other friend and I (I live in a different state than both of them now) but we''ve been friends since we were 6. Now this second friend of mine probably wouldn''t be upset if she wasn''t my MOH, but there is always the chance that she would be. I really don''t want to hurt anyone''s feelings and I don''t want to single out one of them as "the best" because I love them both! So do I ask both of them to be MOHs? They''re not really friends with each other but I suppose that if they had to, they would be able to work together and it would be okay.

Also, neither of them are married so I can''t really go on "well I was HER Moh...". The second friend of mine was planning a wedding for this September which unfortunately got called off, but she was going to skip the whole MOH thing and just have bridesmaids (which I was to be one of).

I''m just torn on what to do. Help!

 

[zoebartlett]

I don''t think there are any rules when it comes to choosing a bridal party. I do like that you''re including your future sister in-law -- I think that''s a sweet gesture. As for your MOH, I don''t see why you can''t have both friends be in that role.

 

[BriBee]

I''m having 2 MOHs and I don''t think it''s going to be weird at all. For me though, one of my friends will be married and will be the Matron of Honor and the other who is unmarried will be the Maid of Honor. So I lucked out there by being able to give them each a distinct name. It''s your wedding and you should do whatever will make the day most special for you. Have 10 MOHs if you want!

 

[CJ2008]

Do whatever you want! If you really want to honor these two people in that way, do it! It''s your wedding...I wouldn''t think twice about it, it''s a nice gesture.

 

[kittybean]

If you want to, you can definitely have two MOHs. I will actually be having two, and they are both pretty excited about it. You love both these ladies? I say honor them both.