tiffanylover83
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Dec 12, 2009
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- 13
Hi Ladies, I''ve been lurking around this forum for quite some time but this is my first posting. My wonderful BF of 2.5 years recently purchased my ering - which I have not seen as of yet (not even pictures girls!). We went through the process of looking at rings together but he wanted to surprise me with the proposal. So I''m clueless about the when/where/what details and am going insane. I told him that I would prefer a non-holiday proposal (X-mas, New Year''s) for several reasons, it''s very expected, many of our mutual friends were engaged over the holidays and one set of parents would end up being excluded as we split time between our respective homes. However, he''s been giving hints the past few days and I''m getting a feeling it might happen on or near New Year''s. I''m supposed to leave tomorrow to spend time with his family in Boston. He has a cocktail party planned with friends and some of his parents'' acquaintances on New Year''s Eve at his house. This did not scare me initially as this has been planned for months and my BF and I love hosting parties. But last night in a phone conversation he suggested that I go for a mani/pedi with his mom and sister this Wednesday, his treat, when I asked what he would be doing he stated he had a lot of "errands" to run and then giggled. I''m starting to fear that he might propose in front of room full of people (also not my ideal situation which I''ve told him) on New Year''s which is making me nauseous. I love him and am excited about getting engaged but am I evil? Should I tell him I know and ask him to change his plans?