Elizabeth35
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For potty training boys--use Cheerios in the toilet. Boys love target practice.
I wish I had opened this thread as soon as I saw it. I didn't know you needed reassurance!
I read the entire thread and think everyone who contributed is brilliant, even Dancing Fire.
I related the most to Bron, however. As soon as I saw what she wrote above, I was nodding in sympathy, only I was 41, not 40.
I used to wake up at 3:00 AM to sterilize nipples for her bottles to make sure I got everything ready for the baby for the day! I was a total and complete nutcase. The first year of my daughter's life my little baby (born at just over six ponds) grew into a nice, chubby baby and I dwindled into a skeleton with my clothes hanging off me! And I was not inexperienced with babies! I had cared for babies all my life, even having my godson stay with me for two weeks as a four month old infant while his mother was in Greece. They just were not my infants!!! I wondered if I had made a horrible mistake...but there was no going back! And so on. And then it all became normal.
I received one baby card that made me feel understood. It was from parents of two (both social workers). It said on the front, "There is a secret to bringing home a new baby." When you opened the card it said inside "Unfortunately, no one has discovered what it is yet".
Hang in there and share your problems with others!
Hugs,
Deb
sounds like our 7.5 month old granddaughter . she screams for an hr before she naps, she kept on fighting her tiredness. My wife can't handle both grandkids for more than a couple hrs.Well on another day I chatted to Grandma who took L to Play Group. Turns out L only sleeps when someone is holding him in their arms! Grandma was complaining how she couldn't pee for 3 hours while he napped and she must hold him because that is what his mother dictates and L cannot sleep unless he is held in arms. I was thinking to myself "Hmm perfect sleeper indeed eh"
If it were up to me, I'd keep him in diapers until he's a bit older. Unfortunately, with me going back to work next week he's starting preschool and they require kids to be potty trained, one of the reasons being they do regular swim lessons. So we are sort of on a deadline with this thingMy boys were all 3 1/2 before toilet training "took"...not sure if that helps or not though...
Still in sitting stage, I dont eveeven want to think about him peeing standing up! LOL!For potty training boys--use Cheerios in the toilet. Boys love target practice.
sounds like our 7.5 month old granddaughter . she screams for an hr before she naps, she kept on fighting her tiredness. My wife can't handle both grandkids for more than a couple hrs.
Funny, My wife used to wake up a 8:00 am to go to work, but now she must wake up at 7:30 am to go babysit.
Well my four year old boy just started using the potty, like literally a month after he turned four. When I would take him out with me to run errands people would ask if he was in school. Nope, he's not potty trained I would say and their response? Oh he's a stubborn one!
Like why do people care? Yes he should be in preschool but he's not, so let's keep it moving.
Nothing stays the same forever. Just when you think you can't take another minute of the present situation, children grow and change and you're on to the next challenge.
My baby is one year old. I love her more than the sun and the moon! But I have to say it’s been a really tough year. Any words of wisdom or comfort? Most of my friends don’t have kids so it can be pretty lonely. The sleep-deprivation is crushing. And the guilt and worry of whether or not I’m doing this right seems ever-present.
Anyways, not wanting to whine. I’ve just noticed that the people in this PS community have big hearts and life experience! So thanks I’m advance.
you have gotten a lot of wonderful feedback already, but I just wanted to affirm that it does get better! Like anything practice make one better. Hang in there!I want you guys to know that I have been reading and re-reading this thread. You are all utterly, incredibly, amazing and generous. Wow, your wisdom and anecdotes make me realize how few new moms I have known. I so completely appreciate you sharing and being vulnerable with me.
I am taking steps to get more sleep and rest. My MIL is here for a month so things have been a bit stressful. No alone time! Haha but I love the idea of her taking baby on the plane, rather than me! Screaming baby on a plane for 5 hours is my idea of hell lol.
I wish I had the time and energy to respond to each and every post! Please believe I am reading and rereading all of them. Thank you so much. You are all a balm for the heart. The mom club has the highest bar for membership but man, the comraderie is great. Love to you all.