The LIW Small Talk Thread

[TooPatient]

How are things going with your mom?

 

[TooPatient]

I haven't been here in awhile but I hope all my ladies are doing swell!!

Hi Crickett

I've been pretty busy lately with work, school, house stuff (gotta love a fixer-upper), and wedding planning (Yay!!). Doing pretty well.

How are you? What have you been up to?

 

[Jessie702]

the same. actually, she called my grandma, and told my grandmother that im mean to her and other thigns. So my gran called me at work today,a nd told me, i need to apologize to my mother, she is sick, and i have to take care of her. That i need to go back home. But than its like wait, grandma, my sister doesnt even call and check on my mom. I told gran, mom said to me " she doesnt want me there anymore" so thats all im doing. Im staying at the boyfreinds for now, until we work something out/propose. My grandma, than proceed to say" your commiting adultry" and that started a whole new wave of things, im jsut letting roll off my shoulder. Its funny how my mom always makes herself to seem like the innocent one, and played no party in anything. Its so frustrating, because no one is listening to me.

 

[TooPatient]

Gotta love family....


Is your mom really in need of care or is that just a way to manipulate people?
Either way, she needs to respect you.

 

[Jessie702]

seriously....its like, is this whats holding up the bf in proposing? J/k......

No, she is sick. She has diabetes, a heart condition and a stomach issue, but i think she uses to manipulate people. She uses it a lot to try and make me feel guilty for not going to the store to get her something or getting her dinner. Its funny though, because on the weekends or after work, when she wants to go gambling, shes fine

 

[Jessie702]

O, and than my grandma was like, i didnt like the dress you had on, too much of your chest was hanging out. Did your bf pick that out......i had to cut her off, because i siad, NO, your daughter, my mother choose that. I told her, why does even jump to the conclusion that he dresses me, im a grown woman.

 

[TooPatient]

seriously....its like, is this whats holding up the bf in proposing? J/k......

No, she is sick. She has diabetes, a heart condition and a stomach issue, but i think she uses to manipulate people. She uses it a lot to try and make me feel guilty for not going to the store to get her something or getting her dinner. Its funny though, because on the weekends or after work, when she wants to go gambling, shes fine

Not enough rolly eyes in the world for this one.

I understand that people who are sick need to do stuff to relax and take their minds off of it, but still...

 

[TooPatient]

See you all tomorrow. I'm heading home for the day.

 

[Jessie702]

HaHa..i couldnt agree more....drive safe

 

[beezygal]

I'm sorry your mom is still like that. It's funny how your grandma thinks your bf dress you. I think if your bf dresses you, he won't find anything that sexy, isn't it? Guys usually don't like their gf dresses so sexy in front of others.

Anyways, I'm glad you had fun at the concert and with the naked dolls. I never like dolls. I dunno why. I'm more of a stuffed animal kinda gal. BTW, a leather vest? I'm sure it looks really hot on you, but... in LV kinda weather? Are you just going to stay at your bf's now?

Hope your asthma is getting better!!! *HUG* Back to more teaching now. Ttyl tonight!

 

[Jessie702]

*hug* Morning Beezy...how was teaching yesturday?
Yeah, i know about my grandma. Every now and than ill let him pick something out if we are going out for the night, and he'll let me pick something for him.We usually pick something rather close to what the other picks, like he will pcik a cute satin skirt, and ill choose his satin pants. LoL Usually he picks some cute pants or this skirt thats not short at all, but he will pick a low cut top. BUT he would so not dress me in front of my family like that. He only does that when he wants to "show me off" Lol...SORRY, I think thats funny.

Well, yea, the vest was hotter than all of hell, but luckly it was nice and cool in that showroom, and i picked a nice spot under the air. It was really hot cuz i had to dance and get into the concert. LoL.....

I swear, i sometimes joke that i must have been mean to my family in my last life,cuz of how my family is now...lol

 

[beezygal]

morning Jessie. Teaching was not bad yesterday. A student is preparing for 2 exams in Aug. I was pushing him to practice harder and stuff. I think he'll be fine. He is just very careless. Monday is usually my longest teaching day. Maybe it just feels longer because it's the first day back after the weekend. heehee. So, it was really really hot for 3 days here. Yesterday it was sooooooooooooooooo windy. Wind warning. Today, it's cool! Sunny with little breeze. Am I rubbing it in your face now? My friend was still thinking about going to LV. Good luck to her.

I hope your SO will propose sooner!!! Did you guys talk about it lately? Yesterday I was asking my BF... "are you going to propose soon?" (my mom is back this Sunday) He said ... " yes.... no." He's playing with my mind. BAD!!!!

 

[Jessie702]

HaHa, yeah, you are so rubbing it in my face. Its going to be 109 today, and 110 wedensday, and than after that we have a heart advisory warning becasue thursday will be 111, friday 112, Saturday 112, sunday 113, and so far monday looks like its going to be 111....i keep thinking i might need to run away to like alaska, were its cold. LoL...

No, we hadnt talked about when he is going to propose. I hope he does it soon too..HaHa,,, yeah yours is playing with your mind. It would be perfect though if he propose while you two were on vacation, somewhere on a beach. HeHe, yours is a lot sooner than mine...

 

[beezygal]

hahaha. Maybe you should come visit me here. It's sunny yet not too hot. It seems like it's going to be around 20C highest or around 15-16C lowest. HEAT warning... that's serious. We had wind warning here. I guess I can't complain.

The thing is... I don't want him to propose on our vacation. Even though it would be so romantic. I know he won't for sure because he's a very very careful person. He won't bring something worth so much across the border. You see, if we're engaged by the time we go on our vacation in Aug, I get to wear it and we can declare it in Canada with the appraisal before hand. I guess he can secretly declare it without me knowing. I just don't think he'll go through the trouble. I might find out this way anyways.

Another thing, I expected to be engaged by our 6-yr anni. He kinda promised that. I dunno. If he doesn't propose by July 24, I'm scared I can't control myself. I'll be very disappointed and upset.

 

[Jessie702]

Okay, now i get it, with the borders and things. Yeah, i dont blame you if she doesnt ask by your anni...i dont know if i could control myself either. Espically after 6 years. My SO and i got into a huge fight back in Feb, when i asked him. He said he didnt know, and was avoiding it. Well, i broke down and told him, im not going to back forever. I also told him, i dont want to hit the 5 year mark, no offense, and still be a Girlfriend. When i say i broke down, we didnt talk for a few hours, and than we talked and i explained to him why i didnt want to wait forever, and he said he understand, and i wont have to wait that long. We have our 3 year anni in Nov.

 

[beezygal]

before we always argued. Everytime is about getting married. Now, we don't even argue at all since we know we'll be engaged soon. 6yrs and no ring, I'll have a meltdown, especially he HAS THE RING! I hope I won't go on PS on our anni to vent.

I really want to be engaged. *stomp stomp*

 

[Jessie702]

i completely understand and know the feeling....

 

[beezygal]

Any plans for this weekend?

We're planning to go out for dinner on Friday. Saturday, my bf might be going to his high school 10 yrs union. He doesn't know if he wants to yet. LOL. I want to go watch a movie too. Then mom is coming back on Sunday. We'll go pick her up at the airport then probably hang out and have dinner together. The thing is my bf might have to work through the weekend, so.. we'll see.

How 'bout you?

 

[Jessie702]

as of right now, we dont have much planned. We are having a balcony built on to the house, and it SHOULD , please keep your fingers crossed, it was suppose to be done by the 4th, be done by than. He has to work on saturday, that his normal work day, and its too hot to do anything so i might go see a movie. I know that he wants to clean the backyard, since it wrecked, and cook dinner for some friends on sunday to show off the new balcony. Other than that, not much. So ill be cleaning, cooking and entertaining, o the joy .Hmmm, maybe i prep the food on saturday while he is at work, workout and read...hehe...that sounds good to me. I know the bf wants to go have a pinic in a few weeks at a local mountain...its soo pretty there, and much cooler. He said maybe in a few weeks after the balcony is bulit, so hopefully we do that, like the weekend of the 30th.

 

[Jessie702]

Okay, i have to say my sister is crazy. I swear, i must have been really mean to my last family in the last lifetime.

 

[beezygal]

I'm sorry about your sister. OMG What did she do/say this time?

I go teach soon. We'll talk tonight or tomorrow!

 

[Jessie702]

Have a good lesson...

Ill talk to you alter tonight or tommorow....im too embarrased to even type what she said. Lets just say, she wanted me to send her a picture of a very private area to her.

 

[TooPatient]

Have a good lesson...

Ill talk to you alter tonight or tommorow....im too embarrased to even type what she said. Lets just say, she wanted me to send her a picture of a very private area to her.

I'm not exactly sure what she wanted, but my mind can't come up with anything that isn't just

 

[Jessie702]

yes.....its like, im not making this up, my family is this crazy....its like you want a pic of what??

 

[beezygal]

Lessons were alright. One student is away in Las Vegas and one student just decided not to show up. That's why I'm home a little early. OMG.. seriously? That is so bizzard. Family porno? lol

 

[Jessie702]

LoL..pretty much.....

 

[beezygal]

still at your SO's house???

 

[Jessie702]

No, i came home for tonight and tommorow and thursday and than im back to his until tuesday morning.

 

[beezygal]

does that mean you're a little better with your mom now?

 

[Jessie702]

nope, we still havent talked. I bought dinner, and as soon as i was about to eat it, shes like" J, you need to do...." *sigh* i know theres nothing i can do about my mom, but tolerate her, and try to stay on her good side, until i move in with him, or the engagement.