Begonia
Ideal_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2011
- Messages
- 3,298
We played classical music at home since he was an infant, we played all sorts of stuff. I tiger-mom'd the hell out of his first 2 years. He never hummed, never sang. He's 6 and still hates to sing, and when he has to sing for class, his pitch is... not good. I have almost perfect pitch so it sears my ears when he sings, but we still praise haha. It's weird you'd think he doesn't sing because he can't speak well, but his enunciation is crystal clear and vocab is huge. He just doesn't like artsy stuff... doesn't like to draw either. He loves mechanical/engineering youtube videos of things being taken apart and put back together. Zero interest in movies where there are stories. In fact, we are watching some dude take apart an alarm system right now. We gave him the old alarm hub to take apart and he's prepping. He already read and memorized the booklet that came with it.
Man, when he said he hated classical music it was like a knife in my back. Music was so important to me, how can my own kid want nothing to do with it? It pains me more than him not speaking Chinese.
Looks like we got another STEM boy LOL. I've got two that were like that. 23 and 18 now.
The 18 year old babbled briefly as a baby and then shut the hell up for over a year. I thought we were heading toward autism, but when he finally spoke, it was hard to understand. He has speech therapy on and off, but no sign of autism. They tested him for learning disabilities early and he scored very high for gifted. Did sweet all in school though, the little bugger. He did use his locker to sell candy and what not to his friends he picked up at London Drugs (a superstore pharmacy in Canada) for cheap in high school. Made enough to buy a computer. Boys. Everything on their terms.