iheartscience
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Laila619|1335496915|3181986 said:thing2of2|1335495561|3181964 said:When I started dating my husband I thought I never wanted to get married, and told him that often. Good thing he decided to roll with it when I realized I wanted to get married, and that I wanted to marry him specifically.
Oh and I also used to tell him diamond rings were stupid and I never wanted one. (What can I say, I was 21 and didn't know any better!) Clearly he's managed to move past my 180 degree turnaround on that one.
Those things didn't make you who you are as a person, though. Of course our tastes and dislikes and opinions change over the years--totally normal. Being an asexual person or having a low drive is probably something not likely to change, IMO, especially since there's no underlying medical reason for it. Radiant said his hormone levels checked out fine.
In any case, Radiant, I hope you and your husband can figure something out that works for both of you and makes you happy! He might never be a 5x a week guy, but some sort of compromise can hopefully be reached.
Movie Zombie, I really liked your post.
Really? One's beliefs don't make them who they are as a person? But their sex drive does? Hm.