Dreamer_D
Super_Ideal_Rock
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- Dec 16, 2007
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Lisa yes indeed I am a DD, and now I am a very very full DD. No new bras butthe ones I have juuust fit. But I am 5''7" and broad shouldered and broad hipped
so I don''t think they looks as big on me as they do on other, smaller women. I expect to be an E or more by the time baby comes and I am bfing.
Amber I am definitely the lower interest person in our relationship, and actually for the fist few years we were together I found that when he wanted it, I really really didn''t because it felt like pressure etc etc. Somehow that issue resolved itself before TTC but we really only DTD once a week, sometimes more when the time was right. But when it was TTC I just put on my trooper hat and we did it everyday, whether I wanted to or not... I always "gt into the mood" and had fun, but somehow that hurdle of getting the mood can seem too high, KWIM?I think these types of issues between couples are about so much more than sex... it''s about control, and people''s scripts about how relationships should or should not be, and wrapped up in all that is any hang-ups people have about it too or baggage from past relationships. Things didn''t really get better between DH and I until we had some frank discussions about our feelings around sex and all that jazz, and it is a real relief not to have this as such an issue between us. When you are TTC, I can only imagine it gets even more frustrating and anxiety provoking! The good news is you really only need to DTD once to get KFU. So don''t put too much pressure on yourself, and make that one time the day before O so it really goes a long way.
Amber I am definitely the lower interest person in our relationship, and actually for the fist few years we were together I found that when he wanted it, I really really didn''t because it felt like pressure etc etc. Somehow that issue resolved itself before TTC but we really only DTD once a week, sometimes more when the time was right. But when it was TTC I just put on my trooper hat and we did it everyday, whether I wanted to or not... I always "gt into the mood" and had fun, but somehow that hurdle of getting the mood can seem too high, KWIM?I think these types of issues between couples are about so much more than sex... it''s about control, and people''s scripts about how relationships should or should not be, and wrapped up in all that is any hang-ups people have about it too or baggage from past relationships. Things didn''t really get better between DH and I until we had some frank discussions about our feelings around sex and all that jazz, and it is a real relief not to have this as such an issue between us. When you are TTC, I can only imagine it gets even more frustrating and anxiety provoking! The good news is you really only need to DTD once to get KFU. So don''t put too much pressure on yourself, and make that one time the day before O so it really goes a long way.