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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is the price you pay, the more important, loving or meaningful the relationship, all the more sharp the grief is when that person is gone. Your grief is a testament to the importance of that relationship in your life, and it is a loss. It reminds me of seeing a wisteria vine wrap around a tree to get high enough to bloom; though the wisteria could have existed separately, as the tree also, after their lifetime together the wisteria has been formed in the shape of the tree and is supported by the tree, and if you cut away the wisteria you see the marks the vine has left in the tree. They have "grown into" each other.
You are strong beautiful daughter. Although you are grieiving now, in time you can be another testament of your mother by doing and being all those things she expected and hoped of you all those years when she was raising you. She will never die as long as you remember her and keep her in your spirit.
You are strong beautiful daughter. Although you are grieiving now, in time you can be another testament of your mother by doing and being all those things she expected and hoped of you all those years when she was raising you. She will never die as long as you remember her and keep her in your spirit.