AmorousWarrior
Rough_Rock
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- Dec 18, 2012
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This is my first post. I have been lurking on this site gleaning information for the past few months and I have finally put it to good use today.
I picked out the stone for the ring today. I think that I finally found what I want but I am just really hoping that she will love it. I have decided to propose on Christmas Eve because we have exchanged gifts on that date because typically I have to work on Christmas Day. This year I won't have to, but it will look normal if we do everything the same as we have done in the past.
We have talked about marriage and she even picked her setting, so the fact that I will be proposing is not a surprise. She's smart enough to know that based upon my salary, she'll probably have her ring in June or July of 2013. But what she doesn't know is that I have been working a second job so that I could surprise her with her ring early. So on Christmas Eve after the house is quiet, I will set it all up while she is relaxing in bed watching tv.
Originally I planned on doing something very extravagant but I think that the ring will be a huge surprise. Right now the plan is that I will make sure that she's in bed relaxing, which is easy enough. I am going to line the hallway on either side with tealights and make a path into the living room where the lit Christmas Tree is. I have 10 dozen red roses that I am ordering to place throughout the room. I made a slide show of all the pictures from the last 1.5 years of our relationship. I have even saved the first picture that she texted me. I have saved every text from about the last 14 months of us telling each other that we love each other and our inside jokes. I took screen shots of those. Pictures from trips that we have taken and all sorts of things that are important to us.
I bought a digital picture frame and have made a slide show with music showing all of these pictures. The song that will play is the first song that we danced to. I'll lead her into the living room, have her watch the slideshow on the digital frame that she will be holding, and then I'll ask.
Like I said, today I actually chose the center stone. I settled on a 1.3c round which will be in a 4 prong solitaire setting and I got an amazing deal. We live in California and her mother is local and knows that the proposal is coming, she just doesn't know when. Her father lives in Texas but does not know as she is not close to him. I want to ask both of her parents for their permission. Her mother because she is close with her, and her father out of respect.
Aside from that, I have to figure out how I am going to sneak all these flowers into the house and I need to find a few more vases. I thought the hard part was over!
Sorry for the long post, but I don't have anyone that I can tell all this too and I wanted to talk to someone! I had originally posted this in another forum, but that one gets very little traffic.
Thanks everyone.
I picked out the stone for the ring today. I think that I finally found what I want but I am just really hoping that she will love it. I have decided to propose on Christmas Eve because we have exchanged gifts on that date because typically I have to work on Christmas Day. This year I won't have to, but it will look normal if we do everything the same as we have done in the past.
We have talked about marriage and she even picked her setting, so the fact that I will be proposing is not a surprise. She's smart enough to know that based upon my salary, she'll probably have her ring in June or July of 2013. But what she doesn't know is that I have been working a second job so that I could surprise her with her ring early. So on Christmas Eve after the house is quiet, I will set it all up while she is relaxing in bed watching tv.
Originally I planned on doing something very extravagant but I think that the ring will be a huge surprise. Right now the plan is that I will make sure that she's in bed relaxing, which is easy enough. I am going to line the hallway on either side with tealights and make a path into the living room where the lit Christmas Tree is. I have 10 dozen red roses that I am ordering to place throughout the room. I made a slide show of all the pictures from the last 1.5 years of our relationship. I have even saved the first picture that she texted me. I have saved every text from about the last 14 months of us telling each other that we love each other and our inside jokes. I took screen shots of those. Pictures from trips that we have taken and all sorts of things that are important to us.
I bought a digital picture frame and have made a slide show with music showing all of these pictures. The song that will play is the first song that we danced to. I'll lead her into the living room, have her watch the slideshow on the digital frame that she will be holding, and then I'll ask.
Like I said, today I actually chose the center stone. I settled on a 1.3c round which will be in a 4 prong solitaire setting and I got an amazing deal. We live in California and her mother is local and knows that the proposal is coming, she just doesn't know when. Her father lives in Texas but does not know as she is not close to him. I want to ask both of her parents for their permission. Her mother because she is close with her, and her father out of respect.
Aside from that, I have to figure out how I am going to sneak all these flowers into the house and I need to find a few more vases. I thought the hard part was over!
Sorry for the long post, but I don't have anyone that I can tell all this too and I wanted to talk to someone! I had originally posted this in another forum, but that one gets very little traffic.
Thanks everyone.