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My cat died last Tuesday. I was taking her to the vet for a general check-up, and she was just fine that morning, sleeping at the foot of the bed, hopping into my lap and purring during breakfast, resenting but submitting to the carrier ... and when the vet took her away to draw blood for tests and do an abdominal ultrasound, she had some kind of a seizure, and 4 hours later, she died. She was only 9 years old, and I miss her like crazy.
I know a lot of what I''m feeling is pretty irrational - she''d be okay if I''d taken her in earlier! or insisted on going in the back with the vet so she wouldn''t have gotten so scared! etc., etc. - but the problem is, I just can''t seem to stop feeling it. She was a wonderful cat, and she had a really happy life, and I''m glad that she didn''t suffer excessively, and that this happened at the vet''s where she could get proper care and while I was there rather than under some really guilt-inducing circumstances like playing too roughly or while I was boarding her, but ... yeah. This morning when I had to call the crematorium I was crying so hard I could barely get the info. out. Do you guys have any suggestions on how to grieve? My husband is suggesting that we get a kitten ... what do y''all think? Healthy, or not?
I know a lot of what I''m feeling is pretty irrational - she''d be okay if I''d taken her in earlier! or insisted on going in the back with the vet so she wouldn''t have gotten so scared! etc., etc. - but the problem is, I just can''t seem to stop feeling it. She was a wonderful cat, and she had a really happy life, and I''m glad that she didn''t suffer excessively, and that this happened at the vet''s where she could get proper care and while I was there rather than under some really guilt-inducing circumstances like playing too roughly or while I was boarding her, but ... yeah. This morning when I had to call the crematorium I was crying so hard I could barely get the info. out. Do you guys have any suggestions on how to grieve? My husband is suggesting that we get a kitten ... what do y''all think? Healthy, or not?