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Clairitek|1331156056|3143261 said:Laila619|1331151462|3143180 said:I am all for women keeping their maiden (i.e. father's) last name, but isn't it a bit hypocritical to not give your children their father's last name? Of course, anyone can do whatever they want and whatever makes them happy; I was just curious.
I'm not sure I follow what you're getting at. A lot of the women who have said that they want to keep their name listed a ton of reasons other than wanting to keep their father's last name because it was their father's (and mother's if she took it when she got married).
I know I said on page 2 in my post about my decision that I did it in part because of my father, but it was more because of his reaction to my change, not really simply because it was his name.
Oh I know. But I thought I read that a few ladies wanted to keep their maiden names, but they did not necessarily want their own children to take her husband's/the childrens' father's last name. So I wondered if that was a bit hypocritical that the woman wants to keep her father's name (i.e. her maiden) but she doesn't grant her own kids the privilege of bearing their father's name. Does that make sense? Sorry for the confusion!
ETA: Just read your post above, Octavia. I understand your POV. Thanks for explaining.