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Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 26, 2014
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I am new here to PS and I recently got engaged on 10/24/14. He proposed in NYC at Top of the Rock at Rockefeller Center. We had a standing ovation from the Rainbow Room Restaurant that sit at the top of the Rockefeller Center. Everything was AMAZING. Just like every other person who gets a nice sparkly diamond, I stare at it all day everyday. Suddenly my diamond begins to shrink right before my eyes!!! I heard about this but never thought it would happen to me. My diamond is gorgeous don't get me wrong but I've read about a lot of women going through this. Is it true that most women think they know what they want until they get it and realize they want something different?? Like a BIGGER sized diamond??? The Fiance and I did go look at rings and he knew the styles I liked before he proposed. I gave him setting style and carat size. I told him it was between a rectangular radiant or RB and I wanted it to be 2 ct. He proposed with a 2ct Rectangular Radiant in a Halo setting. I was in love when I saw it. Now I am thinking that I could pull off a 3 ct. I have always wanted a 3 ct but when I tried some on I thought it was just too big. I didn't realize that regardless of carat size, some diamond shapes will face up smaller or larger. Now I have this itch to get a 3 carat and believe that I will be set. No more. My itch for this has been quite crazy. I feel like I am being ungrateful but at the same time he always tells me he wants me to have what I want and he will always get me what I want....most of the time Last night I brought it to his attention and we actually talked about it legitimately and he said we can go look at some. I don't wear much jewelry. Just earring studs and now my engagement ring. I've always wanted a big rock but my finger size is only 5.0 At first the 2 ct seemed so large and perfect and now I think differently. Am I playing with fire? What do you ladies/men think? Is it just me or is this diamond obsession thing legit? How do some of you deal with it?