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Date: 12/28/2009 7:55:23 PM
Author: Sha
Date: 12/28/2009 7:35:09 PM
Author: radiantquest
Yes, I told him. I asked what his position is on it. He said that he does not have a position until the doctor gives it to him. He isn''t nearly as stressed about it as I am. He called me and told me that I better hit up my baby-daddy for some child support. Before you freak out, he is just joking. His way of dealing with things. I think that he only freaks out as much as I show. If he knew I felt the way that I did he would probably be a little more worried, but he has enough to deal with and I will tell him what the test says and he can think about it then.Date: 12/28/2009 7:08:16 PM
Author: jas
Date: 12/28/2009 6:57:51 PM
Author: radiantquest
I am so scared. That is probably why I have not taken the test yet. DENIAL. I mean if I am I wouldn''t be able to keep it with the awful things in hubbys sperm. It makes me so sad just thinking about it. Of course, I did not want kids, but now that it may be that a little babe part me and part him is in there and I may have to *gasp* you know what makes me cry.
I am not against a woman having her choice, but when it comes to me...I always thought....Oh, I don''t know. It all seems very different now.
RQ- STOP IT. You are spiraling out of control. Get a test and think about it then.
Hugs and hang on, woman. Fear is a tough opponent...and knowledge is a mighty weapon. Before worrying about what MIGHT be, find out what is. My .02. I wish I could private message you, but please know you are in my thoughts.
I hope this isn''t too personal a question, but have you told your husband?
I know it''s hard not to worry, but I think your thoughts may be getting ahead of you. Better to take the test instead of worrying or getting worked up unnecessarily.
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I really agree with Sha. Being upset and anxious about this is certainly understandable, but girl- get thee to the drugstore already! Your peace of mind is worth $10 of drugstore tests.