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Brilliant_Rock
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**A bit of a preface: I am not really a LIW. I''m in a long-term serious relationship. We talk about marriage, future together, etc but that''s not in the cards at this point for many reasons.**
What do you think about doing boudior photos for a BF? I am thinking of getting them for an anniversary gift but my friends seem to have a big issue with this because he''s not my husband or future husband. I guess I just don''t see it... they''re saying that I shouldn''t do it because we''re not committed enough. I guess I don''t see it like this. We''re in a committed, intimate, serious relationship. Then I go over worst case scenario: we break up and he has these photos of me. Who cares?!?! They''d only be given if they were tasteful and something I''d be proud of. Isn''t this concern exactly the same for someone who''s married? What happens if they get divorced?!? I mean, I wouldn''t want them to get out to my boss, students, or coworkers but if it happened--is it the end of the world? They''re tasteful enough--not pornographic. And to be completely honest... I kind of want them for myself! I mean, who wouldn''t want some hot pictures of themselves to make them feel better about themselves?
What are your thoughts? Is this something that should be saved for the married or to-be-married couples? Would you do them for a BF who is not your fiance or husband?
Has anyone done them?
Want to share your experience?
What do you think about doing boudior photos for a BF? I am thinking of getting them for an anniversary gift but my friends seem to have a big issue with this because he''s not my husband or future husband. I guess I just don''t see it... they''re saying that I shouldn''t do it because we''re not committed enough. I guess I don''t see it like this. We''re in a committed, intimate, serious relationship. Then I go over worst case scenario: we break up and he has these photos of me. Who cares?!?! They''d only be given if they were tasteful and something I''d be proud of. Isn''t this concern exactly the same for someone who''s married? What happens if they get divorced?!? I mean, I wouldn''t want them to get out to my boss, students, or coworkers but if it happened--is it the end of the world? They''re tasteful enough--not pornographic. And to be completely honest... I kind of want them for myself! I mean, who wouldn''t want some hot pictures of themselves to make them feel better about themselves?
What are your thoughts? Is this something that should be saved for the married or to-be-married couples? Would you do them for a BF who is not your fiance or husband?
Has anyone done them?
Want to share your experience?