I have a g-friend who often gives me little gifts from her travel etc.She is very kind and thoughtful person.So I try to get her something in return.The problem is that she calls me the next day or even on the same day to tell me she does not like it???? Do I want it back? Believe me I tried everything, but nothing ever is right for her.
I try very hard and often go out of my way to get her something so very special and sometimes hard to find,but it gets rejected.
I thought maybe a gift certificate to her favorite store would do a trick,well that did not help either and I got it back. Yes I got it back!!! So I got myself a nice gift there and its kind of like a gift from her because it was meant for her.No big deal , but it hurts.
She is a very nice person so after years of trying I have decided not to ever get her anything at all.
The question is do I keep accepting gifts from her or do I say I don''t need it ( kind of rude !!!)
I would prefer not to ever say that the reason I won''t take it is because I can''t reciprocate.
Any suggestions? I know that I can''t take another rejection so no I can''t give her anything in the future.
thanks
I try very hard and often go out of my way to get her something so very special and sometimes hard to find,but it gets rejected.
I thought maybe a gift certificate to her favorite store would do a trick,well that did not help either and I got it back. Yes I got it back!!! So I got myself a nice gift there and its kind of like a gift from her because it was meant for her.No big deal , but it hurts.
She is a very nice person so after years of trying I have decided not to ever get her anything at all.
The question is do I keep accepting gifts from her or do I say I don''t need it ( kind of rude !!!)
I would prefer not to ever say that the reason I won''t take it is because I can''t reciprocate.
Any suggestions? I know that I can''t take another rejection so no I can''t give her anything in the future.
thanks