freckles127
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- Dec 16, 2005
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Hi all,
I know that the topic of bachelor night strip club escapades has been beaten to a dead horse on forums here but after going through a few threads here, I noticed that some ladies mentioned that their ground rules have been:
- no hotel rooms with strippers
- no touching
- no VIP rooms
I wanted to start this thread because I have a huge problem with any these and am sensitive particularly about the VIP rooms. While FI has been to bachelor parties and I expect him to have the typical fun (including lap dance/s), there is something about seeking that "exclusiveness" and "extra privacy" that makes my blood not just boil, but rocks me emotionally.
Personally, I have been to these clubs for fun before and don't see the big deal about it - you pay an arm and a leg to have a girl scantilly clad rub herself on you for nothing... you get to see but nothing else.
With the VIP rooms, you pay even more to get the girl to give you a lap dance for a bit longer and try to swindle more money out of you.
WHY?
I am totally for going to the strip clubs to have fun and hang out with the guys, but I find it so disrespectful when my FI seeks that extra attention. To me, it means that he likes a certain girl and needs more attention from her. Is it considered cheating? Sure, it may not totally be physical, but what is he thinking?
I'd like to know if the roles were reversed; would anyone's FI be upset if there was a private room that the man could tease them and they would be perfectly fine with it?
Please, help me understand this...
Many Thanks
I know that the topic of bachelor night strip club escapades has been beaten to a dead horse on forums here but after going through a few threads here, I noticed that some ladies mentioned that their ground rules have been:
- no hotel rooms with strippers
- no touching
- no VIP rooms
I wanted to start this thread because I have a huge problem with any these and am sensitive particularly about the VIP rooms. While FI has been to bachelor parties and I expect him to have the typical fun (including lap dance/s), there is something about seeking that "exclusiveness" and "extra privacy" that makes my blood not just boil, but rocks me emotionally.
Personally, I have been to these clubs for fun before and don't see the big deal about it - you pay an arm and a leg to have a girl scantilly clad rub herself on you for nothing... you get to see but nothing else.
With the VIP rooms, you pay even more to get the girl to give you a lap dance for a bit longer and try to swindle more money out of you.
WHY?
I am totally for going to the strip clubs to have fun and hang out with the guys, but I find it so disrespectful when my FI seeks that extra attention. To me, it means that he likes a certain girl and needs more attention from her. Is it considered cheating? Sure, it may not totally be physical, but what is he thinking?
I'd like to know if the roles were reversed; would anyone's FI be upset if there was a private room that the man could tease them and they would be perfectly fine with it?
Please, help me understand this...
Many Thanks