Mickeylover
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2013
- Messages
- 28
Hi!!! I'm new here, I'm 27 and in pre-engagement limbo . . . My boyfriend will be 27 next week, we have been together 2 years, and have talked about marriage, but lately allot of friends, my brother and people we know have gotten engaged and married.. so I got in a Nagy-sometimes crying stage of talking about marriage with my boy . . . I asked him to tell me the truth because i didnt want to waste my time because I am not super young, he told me " of course I want to marry you, I'm just not ready,.. you have a secure relationship with me, just wait. . . I want to make new businesses and I dont want to get engaged because of pressure, I LOVE YOU just wait please" ... we have a serious relationship, we are together all the time (we do not live together), my family loves him, his family loves me. . . we hang out together with both our families,.. everything is great!! were just NOT ENGAGED!!!. . . . every once in a while he mentions things like "our home" . . . "our kids" . . . . stuff like that. . .
I used to talk about our future all the timeee!!! I think I over do it!! I need to be strong, I even gained weight (like 12 pounds) because of anxiety eating, until he told me like a week ago "baby your tummy is a little bigger" so I freaked out ha ha started going to the gym and got on a Diet, because I realized that i was falling on a self-caused depression . . I dont want to get crazy everytime some gets engaged, I dont want to push him away with my pressure . . . HELP LADIES!!!!! and I crazy??? or is this normal??
I used to talk about our future all the timeee!!! I think I over do it!! I need to be strong, I even gained weight (like 12 pounds) because of anxiety eating, until he told me like a week ago "baby your tummy is a little bigger" so I freaked out ha ha started going to the gym and got on a Diet, because I realized that i was falling on a self-caused depression . . I dont want to get crazy everytime some gets engaged, I dont want to push him away with my pressure . . . HELP LADIES!!!!! and I crazy??? or is this normal??