I know this is a long shot, but has anyone ever been in a similar situation and how do you handle something like this:
Back in May I asked for advice regarding my DD hanging out with a girl who I suspected had panic disorder. (link to previous thread). To summarize, my DD and she have been friends since 7th grade (now in 11th) and in 8th grade began displaying odd behaviors, such as not returning friends''s phone calls, cancelling get togethers and parties last minute, etc. She began having problems in 9th & especially 10th grade and was pulled out of school in April of this year and homeschooled. One day in May she called me at home and begged me to come get her crying hysterically. Her mom did not make a big issue of it (girl had been seeing a psychologist for about a year at that point and was on medication, but I have no additional info since her mom doesn''t want to let her DD''s friends'' parents know anything about it. )
Well my DD only saw her once this summer (the girl was supposed to do volunteer work with my DD this summer but didn''t come back after 1st week) and got a phone call from her in July telling her that she has just spent 3 weeks in a psychiatric hospital. Didn''t hear from the girl again until just before school started asking which homeroom DD was in (DD knew they wouldn''t have the same classes because DD is all honors and the girl isn''t). Luckily they do not have the same lunch period, but today DD had a test in a subject that is a split period so she ended up having a later lunch and saw her friend. The friend asked DD and another girl sitting with them how their summer was. In reply the girl told them that she spent the summer in the hospital because she tried to commit suicide!
DD doesn''t go out of her way anymore to contact or spend anytime with this girl anymore and when I asked DD about how she felt about this remark, DD just said that she thought the girl would be too scared to try anything and was just a little shocked. Well, I am a lot shocked especially since this girl scared me earlier this year when she called me crying and begging to come get her and let her stay at our house.
Do I make sure this girl does not have contact with my DD? Should DD stay friends or try to stay friends. The worst thing that could ever happen is if the girl tried something in front of my DD. She did tell DD that she cannot have any sharp objects because she will try to cut herself.
I appreciate you all taking the time to listen to this story.........
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Back in May I asked for advice regarding my DD hanging out with a girl who I suspected had panic disorder. (link to previous thread). To summarize, my DD and she have been friends since 7th grade (now in 11th) and in 8th grade began displaying odd behaviors, such as not returning friends''s phone calls, cancelling get togethers and parties last minute, etc. She began having problems in 9th & especially 10th grade and was pulled out of school in April of this year and homeschooled. One day in May she called me at home and begged me to come get her crying hysterically. Her mom did not make a big issue of it (girl had been seeing a psychologist for about a year at that point and was on medication, but I have no additional info since her mom doesn''t want to let her DD''s friends'' parents know anything about it. )
Well my DD only saw her once this summer (the girl was supposed to do volunteer work with my DD this summer but didn''t come back after 1st week) and got a phone call from her in July telling her that she has just spent 3 weeks in a psychiatric hospital. Didn''t hear from the girl again until just before school started asking which homeroom DD was in (DD knew they wouldn''t have the same classes because DD is all honors and the girl isn''t). Luckily they do not have the same lunch period, but today DD had a test in a subject that is a split period so she ended up having a later lunch and saw her friend. The friend asked DD and another girl sitting with them how their summer was. In reply the girl told them that she spent the summer in the hospital because she tried to commit suicide!
DD doesn''t go out of her way anymore to contact or spend anytime with this girl anymore and when I asked DD about how she felt about this remark, DD just said that she thought the girl would be too scared to try anything and was just a little shocked. Well, I am a lot shocked especially since this girl scared me earlier this year when she called me crying and begging to come get her and let her stay at our house.
Do I make sure this girl does not have contact with my DD? Should DD stay friends or try to stay friends. The worst thing that could ever happen is if the girl tried something in front of my DD. She did tell DD that she cannot have any sharp objects because she will try to cut herself.
I appreciate you all taking the time to listen to this story.........
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