radiantquest
Ideal_Rock
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She was about 23 weeks prenant and she went in for a normal checkup and they relaized that the baby was in destress, her blood pressue was way high and the baby was smaller than it should have been. I found this out last wednesday. They told her to be on bed rest for a week, then they changed it to bed rest until she delivered. The baby wasn''t getting enough blood so they took her baby last night at 7:23. I just found out this morning. I feel so bad for her. She has been so excited about this baby. She has had the nursery set up since her first sonogram. I can''t imagine what she must be going through wondering what is going to happen. The baby is 1lb 9 oz. That is smaller than the palm of your hand isn''t it?
The other day we went to lunch together and she was saying that she wished she could leave working until she has the baby. Her appointment was that afternoon. I know that is not what she meant by not returning to work until after the baby, but I can''t imagine what she must be thinking. I am sure a little part of her feels like she jinxed it.
Our information is a little spotty. No one really wants to call her and bug her for information since she is keeping us posted. I am going to get together with everyone and send her flowers or something. What should the card say though. Congratulations? Sorry? I have no idea.
The other day we went to lunch together and she was saying that she wished she could leave working until she has the baby. Her appointment was that afternoon. I know that is not what she meant by not returning to work until after the baby, but I can''t imagine what she must be thinking. I am sure a little part of her feels like she jinxed it.
Our information is a little spotty. No one really wants to call her and bug her for information since she is keeping us posted. I am going to get together with everyone and send her flowers or something. What should the card say though. Congratulations? Sorry? I have no idea.