nicoleben
Shiny_Rock
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- May 24, 2010
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So ladies, I just got back from the weekend beach getaway with my boyfriend and parents.. and well.. I thought he would have asked them for my hand during the weekend, and its a possibility that he did, but no one acted different, that i saw at least. so if he did ask them, then he did a pretty damn good job at it.. He kept on calling my mom, "mom" and the one morning said.. "how can i make u my wife if you cant cook me dippy eggs?" always right in front of my parents.. it was a joke, but seriously, i always screw those eggs up. lol.
anyways.. i was talking to him yesterday about his brother who was talking about being engaged to his current gf by christmas or new years eve. I know time shouldnt matter, however, I told my boyfriend i would be very upset if they got engaged before us, especially since they started dating way after us. I think that i sound kind of selfish in a way.. but i dont know.. maybe other peoples opinions will help us out.
I was talking to my boyfriend about it and he said i had nothing to worry about because our engagement was coming by the end of this summer (which is within a month or 2!) so i got really excited.. (my ring is already paid for, just needs to be set on the band)
and then...
his brother was texting me about how his girlfreind has the whole wedding planned out and it would be in september of 2011 and thats when ours was to be.. so i had told his brother that thats when i had planned as well. Especially since it would have been about a year since the engagement. The boyfriends entire family felt like we would be the next couple married, and I know i shouldnt be mad .. but I am!!!
I want to plan my wedding and his mother wants to be a part of it (since she never had a daughter and she lovesssss me dearly), but how is she supposed to when shes planning two weddings in 1 year? and possibly around the same time.. I just i dont know.. IM SO MAD! Maybe im pms'ing? lol
his brother also asked what colors i planned my wedding to be.. and where.. i just feel like one of the most special days of my life is going to be compleet havoc and i dont want it that way.
HELP! or COMMENTS! PLEASE!!!
anyways.. i was talking to him yesterday about his brother who was talking about being engaged to his current gf by christmas or new years eve. I know time shouldnt matter, however, I told my boyfriend i would be very upset if they got engaged before us, especially since they started dating way after us. I think that i sound kind of selfish in a way.. but i dont know.. maybe other peoples opinions will help us out.
I was talking to my boyfriend about it and he said i had nothing to worry about because our engagement was coming by the end of this summer (which is within a month or 2!) so i got really excited.. (my ring is already paid for, just needs to be set on the band)
and then...
his brother was texting me about how his girlfreind has the whole wedding planned out and it would be in september of 2011 and thats when ours was to be.. so i had told his brother that thats when i had planned as well. Especially since it would have been about a year since the engagement. The boyfriends entire family felt like we would be the next couple married, and I know i shouldnt be mad .. but I am!!!
I want to plan my wedding and his mother wants to be a part of it (since she never had a daughter and she lovesssss me dearly), but how is she supposed to when shes planning two weddings in 1 year? and possibly around the same time.. I just i dont know.. IM SO MAD! Maybe im pms'ing? lol
his brother also asked what colors i planned my wedding to be.. and where.. i just feel like one of the most special days of my life is going to be compleet havoc and i dont want it that way.
HELP! or COMMENTS! PLEASE!!!