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Ideal_Rock
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So, a week and a half ago, I get a message from a friends boyfriend asking how I was, and if I was going to be in the area anytime soon, and by soon, he meant the upcoming weekend for a VERY BIG SURPRISE! (read: engagement!). I''ve known his GF since I was 15, we were in HS together, our moms were good friends before their family moved out of state, and my brother took her to homecoming and prom when he was in HS! So, this is a really good family friend who I love to death, and I REALLY like her BF (and I usually don''t like ANYONE''s BFs!), so I decide to make the 4 hour drive to go celebrate with them. I asked him if he was 100% certain that this would be worth the trip (I had already been out of town 2 out of the last 3 weekends), and he said definitely yes.
So I was thrilled!
I get into town, and two hours after I get there, he sends me a text saying the plans have been postponed for a few weeks, due to car problems, ring issues, and not having talked to her parents yet.
WHAAAAAAAAT?!?!?!
Can someone PLEASE tell me why you would be inviting people to celebrate a proposal when you have NO ring and you have NOT talked to her parents???
So I can presume that I was invited to the engagement celebration, but her parents were not??? WHAT?!?!?!
Like I said, I''ve known this family for years... my friend is an only child with VERY overbearing parents, and they would absolutely travel crazy distances and do ANYTHING to be included...
Now, the only upside to this story was that I got to spend the weekend with my SO, and I was sick, so he took care of me all weekend, but I was still PISSED that I drove 4 hours for no reason. I am only working part-time and money is VERY tight! So when I felt better and got back home, I called him to see WHAT in the world was going on!?!
He had a tire blow out... ok, unforseeable... but it was on the way to visit her parents. He called them and left a message to say he was coming on Thursday evening, but didn''t mention that it was a secret or not to mention to his GF, so they called her and asked why he was going to be in town.
The ring: She wanted a Cushion cut ring, so that''s what he was having sourced for her. He talked to a jeweler who had 3 cushions in stock, so he was going to stop by and pick one out. When he called back to speak with the jeweler, they had all been sold. And it sounded like they were loose diamonds, so really, he had no diamond OR ring picked out, but was making plans with other people?!?!?!?!?! Sheeeeeesh!
MEN!!!! I swear! When do they grown up and get some common sense? This guy is in his 30''s! Geeeeeez!
So I was thrilled!
I get into town, and two hours after I get there, he sends me a text saying the plans have been postponed for a few weeks, due to car problems, ring issues, and not having talked to her parents yet.
WHAAAAAAAAT?!?!?!
Can someone PLEASE tell me why you would be inviting people to celebrate a proposal when you have NO ring and you have NOT talked to her parents???
So I can presume that I was invited to the engagement celebration, but her parents were not??? WHAT?!?!?!
Like I said, I''ve known this family for years... my friend is an only child with VERY overbearing parents, and they would absolutely travel crazy distances and do ANYTHING to be included...
Now, the only upside to this story was that I got to spend the weekend with my SO, and I was sick, so he took care of me all weekend, but I was still PISSED that I drove 4 hours for no reason. I am only working part-time and money is VERY tight! So when I felt better and got back home, I called him to see WHAT in the world was going on!?!
He had a tire blow out... ok, unforseeable... but it was on the way to visit her parents. He called them and left a message to say he was coming on Thursday evening, but didn''t mention that it was a secret or not to mention to his GF, so they called her and asked why he was going to be in town.
The ring: She wanted a Cushion cut ring, so that''s what he was having sourced for her. He talked to a jeweler who had 3 cushions in stock, so he was going to stop by and pick one out. When he called back to speak with the jeweler, they had all been sold. And it sounded like they were loose diamonds, so really, he had no diamond OR ring picked out, but was making plans with other people?!?!?!?!?! Sheeeeeesh!
MEN!!!! I swear! When do they grown up and get some common sense? This guy is in his 30''s! Geeeeeez!