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Ideal_Rock
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Now, really. As much as I''m not the bad guy with my ILs, DH is not the bad guy here. His first priority is me and the baby, which is why he is (reluctantly, but still) wondering if he should cut ties with them. Is wishing he could have his cake and eat it too throwing me under the bus? I don''t think so. He''s not forcing me to go have dinner there once or twice a month. I go because I wish we could all get along too. I wish. It''s not easy, but I''m a big girl. It''s hard enough for DH to have this kind of family drama, the least I could do is not add fuel to the fire.Date: 11/3/2009 1:46:54 AM
Author: swingirl
What''s up with DH repeating his family''s insults to you and not shutting them up. His first priority in life should be you and his child NOT his parents. And knowing this situation DH should not be subjecting you to his family twice a month. DH is throwing you under the bus so he can stay on his parents'' good side.
Let DH visit his family without you. And maybe he ought to help them get their washing machine fixed.
As far as the washing machines go, they are out of order because they are renovating their bathroom. Which DH has been helping with, on top of fixing up the nursery for the baby coming next month and house-hunting. Not that it really matters here...