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MayK, i havent read everything here, but i dont think you are a jerk. I have dealt with these kinds of issues with my family over the years. In reading your posts, it seems to me that everything your mom did feels like rejection. You have already had a fair amount of that from her, so on top of your very stressful days and her seeming lack of care and consideration for you it was just too much. We can deal with favoritism directed against us, but when it comes to our kids, those of us who have experienced it, we draw a firm line.
One time in my life, I reacted saying something back to someone in my family who had hurt me, and boy did I pay for it. For years. It still hurts. All I can say, is trust your Father who will always care for you and never reject you and can help you in this difficult relationship with your mother.
One time in my life, I reacted saying something back to someone in my family who had hurt me, and boy did I pay for it. For years. It still hurts. All I can say, is trust your Father who will always care for you and never reject you and can help you in this difficult relationship with your mother.