caribqueen
Brilliant_Rock
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- Dec 22, 2008
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The nerve of some people! Our invitations went out and the A list alone is at 255. We''re hoping that with declines we''ll go down to about 225 or lower (which is where we''d like to be). So based on such a big (I have 26 first cousins on my father''s side alone) and close-knit family, we decided that significant others could come if the two people were married, engaged or living together. We had to draw the line somewhere.
Anyway, I got the following message from a distant cousin and thought some of you might get a kick out of it. What gets me about it is that there is no question mark anywhere in her email. It read:
"Hi XXXX. I received your wedding invitation. Thank you. However, I see that you have me down for 1 seat and I planned on bringing my boyfriend, matter of fact, I am depending on him to drive my mother and grandmother down. I hope this does not mess up the seating arrangements but I just wanted to make you aware before I return my RSVP with 2 attending guests. Take care. See you in June...."
I wrote the following response:
"Hi XXXX. I''m glad you received the invitation. Unfortunately, it''s a hefty guestlist with tight numbers. So I''m sorry that we cannot accommodate your boyfriend with such a big family. I hope you can understand."
She then replied:
"OK XXXX. When do you need the RSVP back? I will see how my mother and my grandmother will get there."
After that message, I decided against replying for fear that I might say something to offend her, also because the RSVP deadline is on the reception card.
A few hours later I got this:
"Hi XXXX. What is your phone number? Mine is XXXX. I just wanted to talk to you about this."
Anyway, I got the following message from a distant cousin and thought some of you might get a kick out of it. What gets me about it is that there is no question mark anywhere in her email. It read:
"Hi XXXX. I received your wedding invitation. Thank you. However, I see that you have me down for 1 seat and I planned on bringing my boyfriend, matter of fact, I am depending on him to drive my mother and grandmother down. I hope this does not mess up the seating arrangements but I just wanted to make you aware before I return my RSVP with 2 attending guests. Take care. See you in June...."
I wrote the following response:
"Hi XXXX. I''m glad you received the invitation. Unfortunately, it''s a hefty guestlist with tight numbers. So I''m sorry that we cannot accommodate your boyfriend with such a big family. I hope you can understand."
She then replied:
"OK XXXX. When do you need the RSVP back? I will see how my mother and my grandmother will get there."
After that message, I decided against replying for fear that I might say something to offend her, also because the RSVP deadline is on the reception card.
A few hours later I got this:
"Hi XXXX. What is your phone number? Mine is XXXX. I just wanted to talk to you about this."