If you were a BM, which would you rather have?

[purselover]

Since you said only 1 or 2 out of the 4 girls would probably wear the jewelry again I wouldn''t bother buying 4 sets. I think you should buy everyone different gifts that better suit their personality/taste. If you know one girl would love pearls buy just her a nicer set, while I see people''s point about one person wearing something that doesn''t go I''d rather have that then buy someone something I know they don''t really want/can''t use again. Personally I think bridesmaid gifts should be a gesture of appreciation for everything that bridesmaid did to support you through the wedding process, buying something you know they don''t want is not showing appreciation. I would go with the totes, or something different.