KimberlyH
Ideal_Rock
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I''ve always thought if I had children I would want 2. My DH is so far apart in age from his half and step siblings (a brother and sister) that he felt like an only child and he has always leaned towards having one child if any. We''ve decided we want one for sure, at some point, and once we have one we''ll decide about number two. His reasons for wanting one are the opportunities we can provide, time and money, that would be less so if we had more than one. The other day he informed me the idea of two is much more appealing now that he heard some famous father interviewed who stated that two is easier than one because they play together, lean on each other, etc.
I don''t think having/being an only child is a bad thing, in my experience as an educator they tend to be more mature, independent, and self assured than children with siblings. Because I love being and having sister I am drawn toward the idea of two children, but as of now I think I would be content with just one as well. We shall see what the future brings.
I don''t think having/being an only child is a bad thing, in my experience as an educator they tend to be more mature, independent, and self assured than children with siblings. Because I love being and having sister I am drawn toward the idea of two children, but as of now I think I would be content with just one as well. We shall see what the future brings.