hi all, want to share with you my story and know what you think.
We''ve picked the ring together at a jeweler store(I''ve my own diamond already). Everything is ready and today I went to the store to gave them my diamond so they can set it into the ring.
He looked surprised that I was going to wait for him in the store while he sets the ring, and then I asked him how he can assure me I''m getting the same diamond back when he''s done, he said I would have to trust him. I then politely asked if he will weights the diamond and the ring or at least do something to make me more comfortable, he got very pissed and said "No I''m not doing it, take your diamond..etc...if I said I''m not doing it, I''m not doing it", he walked back into his store and left me standing there.
He seems offended that I don''t trust him, which I can understand. But at the same time, I would be alot more comfortble if he can somehow assure me I''m getting the same diamond back, I can''t trust him merely because he said I have to. He got such a bad temper, and just leave me without a ring and didn''t even want to discuss alternative again, it''s like there is no way he will set the ring for me.
In the end, I didn''t get my ring, and I planned to propose tomorrow, so now I need alternatives, but that''s not what I want to complain here.
What I want to know if it is fair for me to make such request ? Would you do the same ? It''s so bad that the jeweler would say he''s not going to put together the ring when I''m proposing the next day ? I''ve many reasons to think I''m mistreated, but I don''t think I share that, i''m more interested in knowing what you think ?
Thanks !
We''ve picked the ring together at a jeweler store(I''ve my own diamond already). Everything is ready and today I went to the store to gave them my diamond so they can set it into the ring.
He looked surprised that I was going to wait for him in the store while he sets the ring, and then I asked him how he can assure me I''m getting the same diamond back when he''s done, he said I would have to trust him. I then politely asked if he will weights the diamond and the ring or at least do something to make me more comfortable, he got very pissed and said "No I''m not doing it, take your diamond..etc...if I said I''m not doing it, I''m not doing it", he walked back into his store and left me standing there.
He seems offended that I don''t trust him, which I can understand. But at the same time, I would be alot more comfortble if he can somehow assure me I''m getting the same diamond back, I can''t trust him merely because he said I have to. He got such a bad temper, and just leave me without a ring and didn''t even want to discuss alternative again, it''s like there is no way he will set the ring for me.
In the end, I didn''t get my ring, and I planned to propose tomorrow, so now I need alternatives, but that''s not what I want to complain here.
What I want to know if it is fair for me to make such request ? Would you do the same ? It''s so bad that the jeweler would say he''s not going to put together the ring when I''m proposing the next day ? I''ve many reasons to think I''m mistreated, but I don''t think I share that, i''m more interested in knowing what you think ?
Thanks !