KesVayReas
Rough_Rock
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- May 3, 2008
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How does this happen? A friend of mine and her husband have been married for 4 months and just filed for divorce. They had been together for 6 years before they were married and had a large extravagant wedding. She has been saying that "It just wasn''t meant to be". Although they were in their early twenties, both had college degrees and seemed to be very level headed... And in love. And I know this is not the first,last, or only instance of a very brief marriage, so my question is... Why so some marriages fail so quickly? Can you even really experience marriage with all of it''s peaks in valleys in a lifetime, let alone 4 months?
I, too was young when I married last year. But, we had counseling through our church, were together for 4 years beforehand, and discussed marriage our expectations and desires... Our goals in life and decided to join our lives as one in Christ and begin our new life together. I know it has just been a year, but I could never imagine life without my husband and best friend. Of course the first year was a challenge as I''m sure each year will be in it''s own way. But never ever did I think of giving up. I realize I have different views on marriage and the vows I took in regards to my religious beliefs...
But, what do you all think of the high divorce rates? What about marriages lasting less than a year? Lavish weddings without thought of the marriage to follow?
I, too was young when I married last year. But, we had counseling through our church, were together for 4 years beforehand, and discussed marriage our expectations and desires... Our goals in life and decided to join our lives as one in Christ and begin our new life together. I know it has just been a year, but I could never imagine life without my husband and best friend. Of course the first year was a challenge as I''m sure each year will be in it''s own way. But never ever did I think of giving up. I realize I have different views on marriage and the vows I took in regards to my religious beliefs...
But, what do you all think of the high divorce rates? What about marriages lasting less than a year? Lavish weddings without thought of the marriage to follow?