cutechick0021
Rough_Rock
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- Jan 27, 2008
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Hi
I am new to this board and figured this would be a good place to seek some support (esp since it involves my diamond!) I have been married for two years now and I never really liked my engagement ring. It''s a total weight of .58, but the center stone is .33 (According to my husband he downgraded to save $500), anywho, I would have just preferred one stone of .58, but ended up with the .33 center and the side trillions being .25 in size. He added on trillion side stones which he wanted and it looks like one big clump of diamonds almost like an anniversay band.....Anyway i''m offtopic
I''ve altered the setting of both the engagement ring and the wedding band 3 times since i''ve had it to make it more to my liking and am slowly learning to find out he''s telling other people about what I have done and have heard comments like "that''s appauling she did that" "How selfish", etc. I''m really torn because I know he did the best that he could but he didn''t listen at all to my wishes. I guess I figured I deserved a little more. My dream ring was a .70 princess cut stone. How would you deal with these unresolved issues? I need to just learn to accept what I have been given, but i''m seemingly harming him and my reputation in the process. Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
Alecia
I am new to this board and figured this would be a good place to seek some support (esp since it involves my diamond!) I have been married for two years now and I never really liked my engagement ring. It''s a total weight of .58, but the center stone is .33 (According to my husband he downgraded to save $500), anywho, I would have just preferred one stone of .58, but ended up with the .33 center and the side trillions being .25 in size. He added on trillion side stones which he wanted and it looks like one big clump of diamonds almost like an anniversay band.....Anyway i''m offtopic
I''ve altered the setting of both the engagement ring and the wedding band 3 times since i''ve had it to make it more to my liking and am slowly learning to find out he''s telling other people about what I have done and have heard comments like "that''s appauling she did that" "How selfish", etc. I''m really torn because I know he did the best that he could but he didn''t listen at all to my wishes. I guess I figured I deserved a little more. My dream ring was a .70 princess cut stone. How would you deal with these unresolved issues? I need to just learn to accept what I have been given, but i''m seemingly harming him and my reputation in the process. Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
Alecia