iLander
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redwood66 said:Hi iLander
I believe I said earlier that I don't want women to be men. Umpteen books have been written on the differences between men and women. Why on earth would I want to pretend she is a man? I embrace my differences as a woman. If you think that makes me a chauvinist so be it. That is your opinion.
As far as surgery, when I had mine I approached it from the best "surgeon" possible in my area. I did this by speaking to surgical nurses in the hospital because, in my mind they would have the knowledge of who was the best. I don't make choices based on gender but the best possible "person" for the job.
Hugs to you all!
MariaD I respect your opinion to think that of me. I don't have to agree with it but it is your opinion.
Oh and she is still lying.
Hi Redwood!
I don't want women to be men either, but I'm not sure what that means. Do you have some kind of criteria for both? I think maybe that's the thing: expectations of how people act.
I want men and women to be held to the same standard. Men shouldn't be called "tough and strong" when, in the same circumstances, a woman is called "a bitch." I think it's outdated, and it's time all people are just "people" and I think the same standards should be applied to how they act, what they say, and their demeanor.
I'm sick to death of the "aw, shucks, boys will be boys" attitude that Trump is taking advantage of. You said "He is grandstanding and playing to his base that got him the nomination. I do not agree with many of the idiotic comments he makes. Why he does it I have no idea." You're giving him a free pass. Would you give Hillary the free pass if she said those exact same things?
Someone else brought up the point (I can't find it now) that if Hillary had said even ONE of the things Trump said, she would be vilified. What if Hillary had said "She's bleeding from who knows where. . . " or done that cruel imitation of the reporter? There would be pitchforks and torches distributed.
I just don't think it's fair. It's old-fashioned to use a woman's femininity, or perceived lack of it, against her. It's like saying, "You're not acting the way I think a woman should act, so I condemn you." In this day and age, of gender freedom and respecting the rights of everyone, it's just not cool.
Good for you saying what you believe in, though. I'm thinking you're an Aries or a Taurus.